Unoccupied

I’ve visited a number of churches who place emphasis on a type of meditation that encourages you to leave your mind open — open to God, the Spirit, inner light forces, the earth’s energy, etc. It’s curious that these churches never mention the existence of evil spirits and there is no call to discern the spiritual world through the Word of God. Jesus warned us against leaving our minds unoccupied and void of the truth. “When an evil spirit comes out of a man, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. Then it says, ‘I will return to the house I left.’ When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there” (Matt 12:43-45a NIV).

Thinking Highly

We recently went new car shopping and even though we had an appointment, the salesman was distracted by others — phone calls from other clients, saying hello those he knew who walked in the door, and helping previous customers who were at the service counter. In the process of finalizing the sale the salesman talked about the survey we would be getting from the dealership and he let us know if he got anything less than a 10 his record would be tarnished. I see a similar mindset in the churches I visit. Pastors and members alike want everything written about their congregation to be put in positive light. “For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you” (Romans 12:3 NIV).

Meddling

For some time now the tellers at my bank have irritated me with their probing and inappropriate questions. “Do you usually carry that much cash? I noticed you have a large amount of money in your checking account…With that much cash are you going shopping when you leave here? What are your plans for the weekend?” Here I am in a public place where the conversation can be overheard by those at the next window, as well as those waiting in line. Earlier this week I went to the drive-through to cash a check and over the speaker the cheerful teller ask loudly, “I see that you have a large amount in your checking account …” My chat with the branch teller supervisor following the incident wasn’t totally satisfactory, however she understands that the next teller to publically pry into my banking practices is in for a rude awaking. “Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own” (Proverbs 26:17 NIV).

Measuring Up

In one of my church visits I talked with a woman about the diversity that I was experiencing and she said, “Well, you’ll see with us that you finally came to the right church!” This is not the only congregation I’ve run into that feels unless you belong to their church your own testimony as a believer, as well as your salvation, is questionable. Unfortunately not all of us have letters of introduction like Paul, Barnabas and Timothy. Jesus said, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Matt 7:1-2 NIV).

Underestimating

I am a visual person, so when Jesus tells me to store up my treasures in heaven I try to picture what I’m putting on the storage shelf. For many of us doing good, being rich in good deeds, generous and willing to share (1 Tim 6:18) are not things that stay in the forefront of our minds once we’ve done them, and yet they are classified as treasure in heaven. From our worldly perspective prayers are another category that seems short-lived, because once we deliver them to the Lord they seem to dissipate from our mind. However, prayers too have a treasure value in heaven. “And when he had taken it, the four living creatures and the twenty-four elders fell down before the Lamb. Each one had a harp and they were holding golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints” (Rev 5:8 NIV).

Shades of Ego

I attended a gathering where people in the audience were given an opportunity to speak from the floor. Once again I watched as a speaker waved off the program host saying, “No, I don’t need a mic, everyone can hear me.” Invariably impassioned words fail to reach the entire audience because of the speaker’s overconfidence in his abilities. “Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of gifts he does not give” (Proverbs 25:14 NIV).

In His Name

A few weeks ago I visited a Pentecostal church that had an hour of highly charged praise songs mingled with altar calls prior to the sermon. Describing the ambiance of the worship service the pastor said, “We create an atmosphere to be in the presence of God.” On the other side of the spectrum I recently attended a church that practices silent worship. For an hour the only noise in the room was my turning the onion skin pages in my Bible and, much to my chagrin, the growls in my stomach. The pamphlet from this church states, “Worship is based on silent waiting, where we expect to come into the presence of God.” Certainly God is never confused about His presence; however, I’m not so sure we can say the same about His creatures. Jesus said, “For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them” (Matt 18:20 NIV).

What You Need

The topic of discussion on a Christian web site was about those who withhold financial gifts from the church. The writer, a preacher, listed nine concerns about the practice. One point said, “The practice is divisive. One of the most precious resources of any congregation is unity. The withholding of financial gifts is an act of disunity and divisiveness.” Aside from the fact that a gift is not a gift until it is given, I don’t see how not giving gifts could be divisive — unless of course you were trying to talk others into following your lead. Certainly pastors do worry about tithes and offerings being diverted to areas other than the general fund. However, it seems to me that Jesus’ teachings on worrying about life, food and clothing could be applied to the church finances, as easily as it is applied to the individual. “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them” (Matt 6:26 NIV).

Love Is…

I think most of us are guilty of feeling a twinge of satisfaction when we see someone get their just desserts. It’s been interesting to hear the conversations swirling around those who’ve gone through recent church splits. Neither group wants the other to succeed. There is a weird sense of vindication when either, or both, experience low attendance, low offerings and low enthusiasm. One woman gratifyingly said, “They may have gotten the [new] building, but they also got the mortgage!” I’m thinking it may be easier to apply Paul’s teaching to individuals than it is to a split in the body of Christ. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self–seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Cor 13: 6-7 NIV).

Rudderless

A number of churches I’ve visited have gone through church splits and I’m detecting a pattern. Surprisingly it’s the church leadership, the pastors and elders, who seem to be leaving the facilities to start a new congregation. Those who remain with the old physical structure are small in number and trying their best to hold things together, but it’s hard to miss their rudderless state. Paul tells us of the importance of leaders building up the body of Christ so that we may, “…reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature…” (Eph 4:13 NIV). I’m now wondering if these leaders are failing to bring the whole congregation to maturity in Christ leaving some of them to flounder in immaturity.  Paul describes what happens to those who remain immature, “…infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming” (Eph 4:14b NIV).

Partially Inclusive

I’ve attended a few churches who are proud of being all inclusive and on two separate occasions I’ve heard comments that gave me pause. One man joked, “Everyone is welcome here. He, she, them, or it!” In another situation a woman attempted humor, “Bring your spouses — whatever their sex is!” It strikes me as odd that people of faith purport to love homosexuals and extend to them the right hand of fellowship, but yet they make them the brunt of jokes and poke fun at their life style. “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves” (Ro 12:9-10 NIV).

Do Not Curse

I visited a progressive church that is currently without a pastor. The woman filling the pulpit intended to play two video clips of comedian Robin Williams to illustrate a point in the message. One clip was an ABC News tribute, “The Life and Death of Robin Williams.” The second clip could not be located on the computer and the pastor made a spur of the moment decision to randomly pick another clip. Williams was beginning his stand-up routine when he said, “…to make English the second God damn language!” I winced for the congregation and then cringed on behalf of the empty wooden cross hanging silently beside the video screen. “All day long my enemies taunt me; those who rail against me use my name as a curse” (Psalm 102:8 NIV).

7 – Elevens

We often hear people jokingly refer to repetitious praise song as “7 – Elevens,” meaning a song with seven choruses which is sung 11 times. I recently visited a church that sang praise songs continuously for 45 minutes, verses and choruses, and we only sang four songs — that’s an average of 11 minutes per song! Seriously, can you imagine singing, “When the Roll is Called Up Yonder,” or “All Hail the Power of Jesus’ Name,” each for 11 minutes? Certainly repetitious songs are intended to praise God and be a pleasing aroma; however, somewhere along the line my worship and praise simply wore out — and my praise became nothing more than words.  “And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words” (Matt 6:7 NIV).

Temple Treasury

Each church has its own practice in collecting tithes and offerings and most of us are accustomed to free standing receptacles, or passing offering plates throughout the congregation. During a recent church visit I was preparing to contribute to the offering until the pastor invited us to bring our gifts, tithes and offerings before the Lord. Similar to an altar call, people began to slowly leave their seats and go to the front of the auditorium. With praise songs and music as a backdrop, worshippers put their contributions in a bowl that was placed in a prominent place below the podium. It felt awkward to watch people deposit their gifts and yet it shouldn’t have. “Jesus sat down opposite the place where the offerings were put and watched the crowd putting their money into the temple treasury. Many rich people threw in large amounts. But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a fraction of a penny” (Mark 12:41-42 NIV).

Imaging

In my random visits to local churches I recently went to a church whose fresh and modern name led me to think they were an evangelical congregation. I barely settled into my seat when I realized I needed to adjust my thought processes and prepare for a Pentecostal worship service, rather than an evangelical service. Toward the end of the two-hour plus service the pastor said, “Other Pentecostals look at us as old fashioned, and outdated, but we're Pentecostals [traditional] and we're not going to change!” I was reminded of the many churches who are trying to refurbish their image by rebranding their name. They drop denominational indicators and look for titles that make them seem fresh, modern and relevant in today’s culture. I would never suggest that any church who wants update their community image had a problem with hypocrisy. However, I have to laugh at the similarities in Jesus teaching about cleaning the outside of the cup and dish; the whitewashed tombs that were beautiful on the outside; and the tombs of the prophets and decorated graves of the righteous. (Matt 23:25-28)

Evident to All

I visited a local church and met a man who felt I looked familiar; so much so that he thought there was other person in town who could be my twin. It was curious that he didn’t know the other person’s name and he didn’t ask my name, but he was adamant that I had a look-a-like running around. I laughingly told him maybe I and the other person are one in the same. He rejected the suggestion and now I’m worried. Obviously he never have expected my look-a-like to be in a worship service, so if by chance we are one in the same, somewhere along the line I must have failed to leave a Christian impression. “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near” (Phil 4:4-5 NIV).

Living Soul

The sidebar in a newspaper column on faith said, “Catholic teaching may not yet grant animals souls, but priests and monks of the Franciscan order have a long tradition of blessing the animals on…” Really, Catholic teachings have the power to grant animals a soul? The power of creation, who knew? I’m sure animal lovers have good intentions when taking their pets to be blessed, but I wonder if they extend those same good intentions to their friends, family or neighbors. The Bible says, “And the Lord God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul” (Gen 2:7 KJV).

Woe is Me

I’ve been reading a blog site that is geared toward pastors. While some minister’s comments are in the form of encouragement, many of the comments lately are simply pastors complaining to one another about situations they’ve experienced, the people they serve, and the hardships in ministry they endure. I have to laugh at their Moses-like lament, “Then Moses cried out to the LORD, “What am I to do with these people? They are almost ready to stone me” (Exodus 17:4 NIV).

Your Sins Are Forgiven

I attended a church that has a time of “Confession of Sins and Forgiveness.” After the corporate confession the pastor said, “Therefore, as a called servant of Christ and by his authority, I forgive you all your sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” When I’ve attended other services where there is a public absolution I’m somewhat uncomfortable because it feels like the preacher is somehow standing between me and the Lord. However, it just dawned on me that if I were to hear another person’s confession, I too can state the obvious and say that their sins are forgiven — not that I forgive them, but that the Lord forgives them. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9 NIV).

Fully Dressed

I talked to a pastor friend about visiting churches and he cautioned me to be careful. Reading between the lines he thought I might get sucked into false teachings. I found it curious. I don’t know whether his warning was a way of watching over the flock, or if he felt that clergy are better equipped than laity to spot erroneous teachings. Whatever his thought processes, he misjudged my biblical foundation; and unfortunately he failed to see me as one dressed in the Armor of God. “Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand” (Eph 6:13 NIV).

Banquet Invitation

My brother-in-law called for the elders to pray and lay on hands, but the suggested time on Monday conflicted with his schedule so alternative days were suggested. While this is a grief-type situation, I had to laugh at the absurdity that even in life and death situations, we still want everything to revolve around our own schedule. Jesus told the parable of a great banquet where many guests were invited. However, all those invited began to make excuses such as having just bought a field, purchased oxen and gotten married (Luke 14:15-24). While the parable is an illustration of the Jews rejecting God’s invitation, it also reminds me that throughout our Christian walk we have spiritual invitations — and many of us make excuses.

Please Pray With Me

I visited a liturgical church and the large print bulletin was a whopping 22 pages in length. With the exception of the sermon and announcements, everything was scripted and written out — prayers, responsive readings, and songs. The words of the prayers had meaning, but for me they seemed to lack the same spiritual depth that comes when I bow my head, close my eyes and listen to a corporate prayer. “Come, let us bow down in worship, let us kneel before the LORD our Maker; for he is our God and we are the people of his pasture, the flock under his care” (Psalm 95:6-7 NIV).

To Each is Given

Yesterday I visited with a pastor who shared his concern about how to reach what he referred to as, “this lost generation.” The preacher was thinking in terms of outreach programs. I know ministers wear multiple hats, but it suddenly occurred to me that they do so by choice and/or job description.  The Epistles lists attributes that are given to believers – preachers, teachers, administrators, prophets, healers, interpreters, etc. (1 Cor 12:8-10, 28; Eph 4:11). However, none of these passages refer to believers wearing multiple hats. Scripture doesn’t say some were called to be prophets and evangelists; or prophets and Apostles. We are all a part of the body; not parts of the body. I’m wondering if a preacher’s gift for preaching isn’t marginalized when he also tries to be a teacher, evangelist, and administrator.  “He gives them to each one, just as he determines” (1 Cor 12:11 NIV).

Preaching the Word

There were only 20 of us for worship in the small Baptist church, but the pastor preached as though there were 200 people in the room. His booming voice needed no amplification and the well-prepared message, told in biblical story form, needed no illustrations, fillers or anecdotes. Rather than trying to ingratiate himself to the audience, the preacher focused on presenting the Word of God. It was refreshing to see shades of the Apostle Paul in this preacher, “My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on men’s wisdom, but on God’s power” (1 Cor 2:4 NIV).

Deathbed

Some people in my family are having a hard time coming to grips with words like terminal, hospice, and end of life. It’s as though the first person to utter those words has not only given up hope, but they might also dash the hope of others. In a similar manner believers hesitate to speak about those who are spiritually dying right before our eyes because we don’t want to be labeled judgmental, or appear to have lost hope for another’s salvation. The reality is that there are observable signs for both physical and spiritual death. “The truly righteous man attains life, but he who pursues evil goes to his death” (Proverbs 11:19 NIV).

Turn and Be Healed

I’m healing from a stress fracture located above my left ankle and I’m a little out of sorts that it wasn’t diagnosed sooner. Since I hadn’t had an accident and there was no redness or bruising, the medical provider didn’t think it was broken. I hobbled around for six weeks before an X-Ray was ordered and I was fitted with a boot. I groused to the therapist about the delay in diagnosis and was surprised to learn that many stress fractures are so thin they actually won’t even show up on X-Ray until they begin to heal. I’m now pondering the fact that our need for healing, whether physical or spiritual, is not always obvious to us, or to the professionals. Speaking through Isaiah the prophet the Holy Spirit said, “For this people’s heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them” (Acts 28:27 NIV).

Equipping the Body

My adult Sunday school class is watching a DVD about leaders equipping members for ministry. The motivational thought behind the last lesson is that we are all gifted in some area of ministry. When we build a team, have a dream and get support we can have an effective ministry.  The presenter said, “When you position yourself in that structure you are cooperating with God’s structure.” Unfortunately on today’s church landscape, changes in leadership often means changes in church direction and ministry. I think it’s a tragedy when ministries are eliminated, destroyed, and replaced — all for the sake of change. We have children’s Sunday school teachers who no longer teach; youth group leaders who no longer sponsor; and hand bell choirs who no longer perform. Leadership sometimes forgets, “…But God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it” (1 Cor 12:24b-26 NIV).

Unclean

My brother-in-law was taken to the Emergency Room of a local hospital and I spent a few hours in a packed waiting room and ER cubical area. Similar to a restaurant maître d' telling customers they’d be seated as soon as a table was available, the admissions clerk put names of patients on a “triage list” as they waited for the next available bed. One man, who was riddled with the flu, stayed slumped in his chair when he wasn’t loudly regurgitating in the bathroom. I knew I was in a large petri dish when I watched a healthy husband and wife, grab face masks, hand sanitizer and moved to the far side of the room. And to think there is something more unclean than a germ, or a virus. “Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen and understand. What goes into a man’s mouth does not make him ‘unclean,’ but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him ‘unclean.’” (Matt 15:10-11 NIV).

Weapon of Choice

I have a friend who is a strong person of faith, but in the work environment she doesn’t want others to know she is praying about difficult situations. It’s as though prayer is her weapon of choice and she wants to keep it concealed. At first I thought her stance strange. I suppose it’s because I’m just the opposite — I want others to know that prayer is in my arsenal. Paul tell us to put on the “full armor of God” because our struggle is against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Interestingly prayer is not listed as part of the armor. “And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints” (Eph 6:17 NIV).

Pre-Spot

During a holiday meal I dribbled some cranberry sauce down the front of my white turtle neck top. My son-in-law, who has laundry experience from his bachelor years, jumped into action and insisted we get some detergent on it right away. I’m more of a pre-spot person, so when I’m ready to do a load of laundry then I look over the clothes, put on a dab of spot remover and toss them into the wash — sometimes the stain comes out, sometimes it doesn’t. Tim offered to work on the spot immediately, so I let him. Actually I thought the shirt was a goner, but with his quick action the stain is gone. It’s not a far leap for me to see the similarities between sins and laundry. There are times when sins are just not on the forefront on my mind. I may postpone confession until bedtime prayers, before taking communion, or even wait until the Spirit forces a confession out of me. “Come now, let us reason together,” says LORD. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool”” (Isaiah 1:18 NIV).

Consider Others

During a church visit the preacher sought me out as soon as I walked through the door and introduced himself. I extended my hand, but he declined because he was recovering from the flu which is reaching epidemic status in the community. While there was no outward evidence that the pastor had been ill, or that he might still be contagious, he sat aside ambition and used caution. Even in little things Paul reminds us, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others” (Phil 2:3-4 NIV).

Godless Men

Sunday I attended a Baptist church and at the end of the service one woman was curious about the reason for my visit. I told Kathy about the series of articles I’m writing on the different worship experiences and she perceived me to be a reporter working for a newspaper. I was taken aback when she asked, “Are you a Christian?” Seldom has anyone ever asked me that question in a worldly setting, much less in a church setting. Kathy’s question was bold, inquisitive and thought provoking. We don’t think about being on guard during worship, and yet that is the warning we hear from Jude. “For certain men whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are godless men, who change the grace of our God into a license for immorality and deny Jesus Christ our only Sovereign and Lord” (Jude 1:4 NIV).

Bad Dog

An internet photo of a puppy that had destroyed a newspaper had the caption, “Bad dogs that are too cute for you to get mad at.” I might have reworked the caption to read, bad dogs that are too cute to stay mad at. It’s interesting that we don’t stay mad at a baby or a puppy, yet for years we can hold a grudge against a family member, co-worker or friend who has wronged us. The Canaanite woman who ask Jesus to heal her daughter recognized, “…even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters’ table” (Matt 15:27 NIV). In order to let go of grudges maybe I could put a new face on those who’ve left me with an offense I can’t get past — Bad Dog!

Taste and See

As I visit all the churches in town I’m sampling many different types, shapes and sizes of unleavened bread. Last Sunday the wafer was more heavily infused with olive oil, which left a lingering taste in my mouth long after the elements were consumed. Unlike the cardboard taste of many commercial wafers, the experience placed a pronounced emphasis on the body of Christ. “Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the man who takes refuge in him” (Ps 34:8 NIV).

The Pulpit

On his web site a pastor had two erroneous comments: “Churches who do not give prayer a high priority are churches without God’s power.” And, “A church member not in a small group or Sunday school class is not fully committed to the body.” During a recent sermon the speaker, an older gentleman, was substituting for the regular pastor. He humbly said, “If I speak anything from the pulpit that is my opinion please forgive me. A man is to get up and speak the oracles of God and if he can’t do a little of that, then don’t stand up and speak.” It occurs to me that many web sites and blogs have an identity problem. They give opinions, but they do so under the guise of the pulpit — the power, respectability and authority associated with the pulpit.

Shades of Baal

The Winter Solstice Celebration I attended at a New Age church had 20 people assembled in a circle around an altar. The altar, a raised circular platform about 12 inches off the floor, held a large lit candle surrounded by a green wreath. On the floor around the mini-altar were tambourines and small drums. During the appropriate chants and songs worshippers were invited to pick up the musical instruments and participate. The gist of the worship was to imagine that your feet had roots growing down deep into the ground where you could tap into the energy of mother earth. The energy would come up through the body, out through heads and form a collective light of worshippers. A subdued image of the prophets of Baal came to my mind. “Then they called on the name of Baal from morning till noon. “O Baal, answer us!” they shouted. But there was no response; no one answered. And they danced around the altar they had made" (1 Kings 18:26b).

Two or Three

I continue to visit all the churches in town and write about the experience. Right before Christmas I attended a New Age church that had a smattering of Christian elements mixed with pantheism — an Advent candle, revised verses of the children’s classic “This Little Light of Mine,” a song sheet with wishes for a joyous Christmas. During various meditative segments of the service the lights were turned off and the room glowed by candlelight. I searched for signs of the Lord’s presence, but unfortunately the room wasn’t the only thing dark. The worship service was for mother earth and it was obvious Jesus wasn’t invited. “For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them” (Matt 18:20 NIV).

A Gift From God

I recently saw a photo collage of elderly people (ages 79-107) and their thoughts on staying active and vibrant. Most of them attributed their longevity to personal lifestyle choices. All of the pithy sayings were good, and 99 year-old Ida, who is still doing push-ups said, “Do what you need to do, not what you want to do.” The writer of Ecclesiastes takes a different view and puts God in the picture. “I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil—this is the gift of God. I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that men will revere him” (Ecc 3:12-15 NIV).

His Kingdom Will Never End

“But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end” (Luke 1:30-33 NIV).

All Inclusive

Many of today’s churches are on the all-inclusive bandwagon and I believe their intent is, “regardless of your religious persuasion, everyone is welcome to worship with us.” It’s almost as though all-inclusive has become a marketing tool for the church. It strikes me as arrogant that these churches would think God, gods, or any number of religious belief systems would even want to be included in a co-op worship service. “You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments” (Exodus 20:5-6 NIV).

Silent Night

I timed my visit to an all-inclusive New Age church for last Sunday because I wanted to see how they handled the Christmas story. Unfortunately the service didn’t celebrate the birth of Christ, but rather a Winter Solstice Celebration and the worship of mother earth. After setting through a gathering that seemed to lack any presence of the Lord, I was surprised by the closing song selection. They sang all three verses of “Silent Night.” While I felt this song was intended as a token gesture for the Christmas season, it was much more. “Silent Night” actually tells the entire story of Christ’s birth — the Virgin, Holy infant, shepherds, heavenly hosts, Son of God — Christ the Savior is Born!

The Perfect Gift

Do not … I repeat do not, send a grandma to buy a football. I picked out an attractive buff colored leather, NCAA ball, but I wasn’t sure if it was regulation, so I ask another shopper if I had the right thing. Impressed with my selection he said, “Oh yeah, any kid would love to have this. If it were for me [for an adult] I’d want the NFL ball, but for an 11 year-old kid this is perfect.” I went to check out and the man at the register said “Whoa! Leather. This is a grrrreat ball for a kid. Now don’t let him play with it in the street because the asphalt will tear up the leather. He has to play with it on the grass.” Both of these men were so smitten with the football, it was as though they were rediscovering their11 year-old self and imagining getting such a Christmas gift. I have to admit I just about croaked when the cash register rang up the price, but at that point I wasn’t about to put that football back. After all, I had it on good authority that this football was a perfect gift. I’m now wondering if some of us, when we talk about the Lord to others, have forgotten that emotional moment when we ourselves received the Perfect Gift of Jesus.

Memory Lane

My address book is old and over the years I make changes by putting a big “X” through the old entry and writing a new entry. Consequently, every year when I send out Christmas cards I’m reminded of deaths, marriages, divorces, changing residences, and friends with whom I’ve lost communication. It’s often a bitter sweet walk down memory lane. As believers our names are written in the Book of Life and it gives me pause to think of the memories that are attached to our names. “He who overcomes will, like them, be dressed in white. I will never blot out his name from the book of life, but will acknowledge his name before my Father and his angels” (Rev3:5 NIV).

Hate the Sin, Love the Sinner

One of the questions I ask when interviewing women is whether they have experienced any gender equality issues. One woman employed in the judicial system gave me an interesting analysis, “Most discrimination is formed because they are unhappy with my decisions and my rulings; but they don’t say they are unhappy about the decision, rather they look for an explanation as to why I ruled against them.” I think she may be on to something. When I get tweaked about a political or religious decision, it becomes more about the person who made the decision, than about the decision itself. I may label the decision maker in such terms as jerk, bully, or chauvinist. Maybe this new insight will help me get a better handle on hating the sin and loving the sinner.

Speaking the Language

Speaking through a translator a woman was interviewed about the pressing issue of immigration rights. She has lived in the area for more than 25 years, her husband has worked in the US for 28 years, and their three children range in age from late teens to a 5-year-old. The woman, in spite of Obama’s executive orders, is still fearful of deportation. I have to admit that I suffer from indignation when I hear people living in the America for a quarter of a century, they haven’t bothered to learn the language, and yet they want permanent residency. Then again, we have believers who’ve been attending worship services for over 25 years and they too haven’t bothered to learn the language of Christ.

Hold My Hand

I recently talked with a woman who told me about a three year-old who was leaving preschool and her dad told her to hold his hand so he could help her down the steps. Putting her hands together the child rejected her dad’s offer and said, “I’ll hold my own hand.” I have to admit that I love the tyke’s independence streak. However, from an adult’s spiritual perspective, I’m now wondering how often I’ve told the Lord, I’ll hold my own hand. “The LORD is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him …” (Nahum 1:7 NIV).

Be Filled

The church I visited Sunday has had an interim pastor for a few months and the search committee, as well as the man the Lord has in mind for the pulpit, were on the prayer request list. Although nothing was said, I had the sense that the church may have lost some members when the previous pastor retired. As a visitor I arrived 15 minutes early, sat through the worship service, and took my time exiting the church. The 80 people present were visiting before and after the service, but only one man nodded in my direction as he took the seat in front of me. Beyond that, no one else made eye contact or spoke to me. I was somewhat conflicted when the pastor prayed for the church, “That this house of worship would be filled.” Certainly the Lord can answer their prayer, but I wonder if He expects a little help from the faithful. “By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures” (Proverbs 24:3-4 NIV).

Lost

Mormons refer to the LDS church as the “true church” and most of us are familiar with the dogma that Joseph Smith received a revelation and restored the church. However, during my recent visit to an LDS church I was surprised to hear more than one member give Joseph Smith credit for restoring the church that was “lost for centuries.” Really? In my college studies of theologians and their writings no one wrote of a lost church, or grieved over the lost church. Speaking to Peter Jesus said, “And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it” (Matt 16:18 NIV).

Devaluing Others

A friend introduced me to a Christian web site that offers information on church issues and asks readers to comment and share their experience. Almost on a daily basis surveys, updates and discussion issues arrive by email. I’m starting to see a pattern where pastors and staff are chiming in, but lay people are less forthcoming. There have been a couple of times I went to the trouble of composing comments, but then I didn’t send them. I suppose past experiences of sharing my opinions with church leadership only to have them discounted or marginalized is in the back of my mind.  I think I need to put myself in Timothy’s place and take Paul’s message to heart, “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity” (1 Tim 4:12 NIV).

Testimony

I recently attended a church where the worship service, aside from taking sacraments and singing three hymns, was made up of impromptu testimonies. The speakers had an eclectic collection of thoughts — everything from Jesus being the Son of God, to personal confessions, walks down memory lane, Christmases past and persecution of their denomination. Obviously some of these folks were a little confused about the components and purpose of a testimony. Jesus said, “If I testify about myself, my testimony is not valid. There is another who testifies in my favor, and I know that his testimony about me is valid” (John 5:31-32 NIV). The work Jesus came to finish testifies that He was sent by God.

Give an Accounting

Each January my church treasurer hands out a white legal size envelope that contains a record of a person’s financial support and tithes during the last year. The first of December I visited an LDS church and a man handed out a couple of white envelopes to members prior to the service beginning. Announcements were first on the agenda and the speaker said, “The Tithing Settlement is happening, so see what day works for you and take time to sign up for one of the available days to meet with the Bishop.” I feel confident that the white envelope also contained a tithing record — a record of unpaid and past due tithes. Makes me think we should be grateful that the Lord expects an accounting of our life at the Judgment Seat of Christ — and not before the end of each year! “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad” (2 Cor 5:10 NIV).

Bearing His Name

Last year I donated my large commercial cookie sheet to the church because my days of making massive amounts of peanut butter cookie bars are over. Recently Bill had coffee with the guys at church and he came back with the cookie sheet in hand. I’d failed to remove my name from the bottom of pan, so the guys were sending it home. As believers, many of us fret over loved ones that have drifted away from the Lord; we seem to have forgotten that a name has been written on them. “Him who overcomes I will make a pillar in the temple of my God. Never again will he leave it. I will write on him the name of my God and the name of the city of my God, the new Jerusalem, which is coming down out of heaven from my God; and I will also write on him my new name” (Rev 3:12 NIV).

The Saints You Know

Prayer warriors have played a huge role in Bill’s ongoing cancer issues. Yesterday while he finished the last of the most recent course of treatment, I visited with patients and staff at the cancer center and ran a couple errands. On three different occasions women I’d never met before wanted to pray for Bill. I’m familiar with the generic “I’ll pray for you,” but in each instance these woman specifically ask, “What is his name so I can pray for him?” These three ladies were a good example of praying for all the saints — even those we do not know. “And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints” (Eph 6:18 NIV).

Making Disciples

My friend is a retired teacher of 30 years and when the name of someone in the community comes up it’s not uncommon to hear her say, “They were one of my kids; I taught them in school.” In some cases she also taught a second generation of the same family. Years ago we heard something similar from Sunday school teachers whose ministry was to teach Bible stories to generations of children. “Since my youth, O God, you have taught me, and to this day I declare your marvelous deeds. Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, O God till I declare your power to the next generation, your might to all who are to come” ( Psalm 71:17-18 NIV).

Go and Make Preparation

When I hear conversations about a pastor’s work hours and heavy load, one interesting factoid that always seems to find its way into the discussion is that it’s not unreasonable for a preacher to spend up to 20 hours a week preparing his sermon.  I’ve heard pastors speak at conventions and their presentations reflect many hours of preparation, but unfortunately the weekly sermon does not get the same level of attention. I can’t remember when I’ve heard a sermon that was polished with 20 hours of preparation. Of course fillers such as illustrations, jokes and stories do take some thought, but Paul reminds us, “Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word of Christ” (Romans 10:17 NIV).

Humbly Proud

When I read a news report heading that a sports figure was, “proud, humbled by Hall of Fame induction,” it caused me to contemplate the coexistence of pride and humility. In the same vein, as I interview women for a series of articles on leadership, they often say they are humbled and honored to be interviewed. Certainly our resident New Testament tax collectors, Zacchaeus and Matthew, experienced a similar experience when Jesus invited Himself to their homes for a meal. I’m now wondering if I’ve been remiss in not putting a cloak of pride and humility around salvation. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified” (Ro 8:28-30 NIV).

Kind and Gentle

For many years I’ve watched Betty wring her hands and try to interject Jesus into the life of an unsaved friend. Her friend is new age and has no interest in religious innuendo, devotionals or spiritually slanted greeting cards. Usually our prayer for the unsaved is for someone to come into their lives and help bring them to the Lord. I think it’s interesting that we pray for people to intervene, rather than praying for God directed circumstance. It is a frightening to think of asking God to bring about circumstances that will bring the unsaved to the Lord — that could be so harsh. We would rather people be saved through the kinder and more gentle means of testimony, witnessing and invitation.

Ready to Go

Recently my husband’s elderly aunt was hospitalized with a deadly strain of pneumonia. When she understood her condition was not survivable, she told the doctors she was ready to die and they stopped all treatment. We often see such a thought process in the elderly who have lived a long life, or in those who are weary of physical suffering. It strikes me that at baptism we symbolically say something similar. We are ready to die — die to ourselves, and be raised to a new life. The emphasis is usually placed on the new life we have in Christ, but I wonder if we’re lightly dismissing the death of the sinful nature. When we enter the waters of baptism we are saying, “I’m ready to die.”

Thanksgiving Aroma

We are having a smoked turkey for Thanksgiving, thanks to the efforts of my son, Troy. While I appreciate not having to cook, I must confess I miss the smell of the Thanksgiving Day feast baking for hours in the oven. I'm reminded of the consecration of the priests, when Aaron and his sons were given specific directions for the slaughter and dissection of a ram that was to be sacrifice to the Lord. “Then burn the entire ram on the altar. It is a burnt offering to the LORD, a pleasing aroma, an offering made to the LORD by fire” (Ex 29:18 NIV). As believers we still make sacrifices to the Lord, but I wonder how many of those sacrifices have actually gone through the fire and produced a pleasing aroma to the Lord.

Love Those Enemies

Police detectives on television crime dramas always interview friends and co-workers of the murdered victim. More often than not the interviewee reports that victim was well liked and, “didn’t have an enemy in the word.” Most believers would love such sentiments written as their epitaph. However from a spiritual perspective, I’m wondering if our enemies are more valuable to us than our friends. “When a man’s ways are pleasing to the LORD, he makes even his enemies live at peace with him” (Proverbs 16:7 NIV).

Alternative

Since my childhood there have been changes to Halloween and some alternatives offered are church parties where kids dress up as Bible characters, or Fall Festival activities. I appreciate choices for parents, but I have fond memories of Trick or Treating and if I were raising kids today I’d probably still take them around the neighborhood. A recent television news segment interviewed a man who wanted people to consider having an “Alternative Christmas.” Basically he wanted people to donate their traditional Christmas to his suggested benevolent cause. I’m no more impressed with his suggestion than if an environmentalist ask me to give up my Birthday or Anniversary for global warming. Paul warns us about people who delight in false humility, “Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day” (Col 2:16 NIV).

Those in Need

Sunday I visited a church where empty seating was scattered throughout the auditorium, however none of the available seats were contiguous enough to accommodate more than three people. When a family of six arrived after the service had already started and I witnessed the Golden Rule in action. The whole back row of worshippers, without being asked, picked up their belongings and gave up their seats to the family and then they dispersed throughout the auditorium. “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. … Share with God’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality” (Ro 12:10, 13 NIV).

Giving Thanks

This week I attended a meeting where the topic of discussion for one segment of the agenda was to share a memorable Thanksgiving experience. The impromptu exercise garnered four volunteers, but one man who normally enjoys such opportunities sat silent. When the meeting was over I ask my friend why he didn’t contribute. Looking a little sheepish he said, “I didn’t have anything to say. Anything I said would have been boring.” He paused, “The truth is I have nothing memorable because we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving.” Say what — what’s not to like about Thanksgiving? I’ve heard reasons why people choose not to celebrate Christmas, Halloween and Veteran’s Day, but eliminating Thanksgiving is a new one. The writer of Hebrews reminds us why we are to be thankful, “Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our “God is a consuming fire” (Heb 12:28-29 NIV).

Meet & Greet

There is an on-going conversation about church friendliness — or lack thereof. In the process of visiting local churches, I’ve discovered each church has their own level of outreach. I’ve observed that people who are shy, introverted, anti-social, disconnected, newer members, or those carrying heavy burdens tend to sit around the perimeter of the sanctuary. Interestingly, visitors also gravitate to the perimeter of the room. Not surprisingly, those who meet & greet visitors are often the very people who are most uncomfortable in that situation. It would behoove those of us who are more outgoing to follow the example of Jesus and look at our perimeter. Passing through Jericho “…Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, “Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today” (Luke 19:5 NIV).

Keeping Watch Over the Flock

I talked with a woman who told me she has attended the same church for nine years and even though it’s the denomination of her youth, in this particular church she still feels like a visitor. Because this is one of the churches I’ve visited, I knew exactly from whence she came. Interestingly a few weeks ago she began attending another church and she said, “I’ve been moved to tears by the outpouring of fellowship and biblical teaching.” The simile of a shepherd and flock with the church comes to mind. “Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever, and a crown is not secure for all generations” (Proverbs 27:23-24 NIV).

Acting

In the advice column “Ask Marilyn,” columnist Marilyn vos Savant differentiated between lying and acting. “Say you’re a soldier and an enemy asks you for information that would aid the opposition. Should a person of high moral character tell him the truth? Of course not.” Personally, I’ve never understood liars, but I’m now wondering if some people I’ve heard tell lies have convinced themselves that in certain circumstances they are simply actors playing a part. “The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in men who are truthful” (Proverbs 12:22 NIV).

Opinion, Theory, or Fact

I recently interviewed a woman whose pet peeve is people presenting their opinions as fact. After some thought I realized that whether a speaker or a listener, the difference between opinion and fact is seldom clearly stated. What I find even more interesting is that society tells us to accept what is said on the grounds of “to each his own,” rather than asking others to quantify statements. I now have a greater appreciation for Paul’s clarification about his own opinion, “Now about virgins: I have no command from the Lord, but I give a judgment as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. Because of the present crisis, I think that it is good for you to remain as you are” (1Cor 7:25-26 NIV).

Comfort Received

Part of Bill’s current cancer regiment is similar to dialysis and for two and three hours at a time he is hooked up to machines and IV’s. The length of time required for treatment makes it easy to build relationships with nurses, doctors and other patients. Most of us subconsciously divide the patients from the medical professionals; the sick from the healers. However, during a recent treatment I learned that many of the medical staff themselves have had cancer, including one young female doctor celebrating 12 years of living with cancer. “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (2 Cor 1:3-4 NIV).

Guest or Host

I visited a friend’s church and as I sat in the auditorium people around me visited with one another, but no one spoke to me. When I told Dave about my experience he said, “I know what you mean. I go in and sit down and no one ever comes around to talk to me either.” Dave wasn’t being critical, but he was serious. It cracked me up because he has been a member of his church for about two years. It occurs to me that even as we sit in the pew we resemble our namesake body parts — feet, hands, ears, eyes, unpresentable and presentable parts. “But in fact God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be” (1 Cor 12:18 NIV).

Discipleship

Recently we dined at an Italian restaurant and our waiter Gavin introduce us to a trainee who was shadowing him  for the evening. Unfortunately, Gavin was not the best example of good service. Rather than reaching around us to serve our food, he reached across the table. He served the entrées and topped them with grated cheese, before removing the empty salad plates and soup bowls. Thinking of church discipleship in a similar manner to server training, it strikes me that many of us are just like Gavin. We may know the Gospel message, but our example and the way we try to teach others to serve it leaves a lot to be desired. However, we can take comfort in knowing that the Apostle Paul also lacked a certain finesse. “When he came to Jerusalem, he tried to join the disciples, but they were all afraid of him, not believing that he really was a disciple” (Acts 9:26-27 NIV).

We Need

I’m still cogitating on the woman who feels everything she needs is right in front of her, all she has to do to succeed is open her eyes and see it. So often in the church we tell ourselves, and even those outside the church, about the needs in the body of Christ. We need teachers, music directors, qualified elders, bigger buildings ... and especially young families, because without them the church will surly die! I can only imagine how the Lord must feel when we verbalize to the world about things we think our individual churches need; implying that our needs are not being met. “And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him” (Matt 6:7-8 NIV).

Open My Eyes

Recently I interviewed a woman whose unstructured personality was filled with enthusiasm, inspiration and motivation. Her spiritual compass included being open to any creative force that keeps ideas, imagination and creative juices flowing. Offering a unique perspective she said, “Everything I need is right in front of me; everyone I need is right in front of me — I just have to open my eyes and see.” While I don’t subscribe to her view on spirituality, I’m intrigued by the resolve that she is fully equipped for whatever comes her way. As believers we are so busy trying to equip ourselves for the Lord’s work that we fail to see He has already given us everything we need to be successful. The message in Michael W. Smith’s song, “Open the Eyes of My Heart Lord” is about our seeing the Lord. For many of us, seeing the Lord is not the issue; the issue is seeing what He wants us to accomplish.

Pouring the Water

I visited a Presbyterian Church which began their service by “Pouring the Water.” A young girl in her early teens stood in front of the congregation with a pitcher of water. My view was blocked by the podium, but she poured a portion of the water into some type receptacle. Because no explanation was offered, I was left to my own imagination as to the meaning of the ritual. At the time I thought the symbolism might be connected to washing the disciple’s feet; then when I got home I went online and found a reference to the Holy Spirit being poured out. Finally I called Steve, who is a member of the congregation, to ask for the meaning. When he told me it was for baptism it cracked me up because that particular symbolism was not on my radar.

I’m now wonder if something similar happened in the Corinthian church. The intention was for the Corinthians to come together for the Lord’s Supper, but the meaning was lost because the people were eating and drinking without waiting for one another.

Paul had to remind them not only of the symbolism attached to the elements of the Lord’s Supper, but also the purpose. “For whenever you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes. Therefore, whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord” (1 Cor 11:26-27 NIV).

Cold Turkey

Recently, after decades of chewing tobacco, my friend quit cold turkey — and now the doctor wants him to lose 30 pounds. Comparing the two it seemed logical that if he could quit chewing, surely losing weight should be a cakewalk. I was reminded of the woman caught in adultery and the way Jesus responded to her. He didn’t condemn the woman; nor did He tell her to make a plan, taper off, or gradually leave her adulterous ways. He did however, tell her to quit cold turkey. Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin” (John 8:11b NIV).

I Was a Stranger

The pastor gave instructions for people to leave their seats and greet one another. A few empty chairs separated me from a middle-aged man who hesitantly, and almost apologetically, approached me saying, “Are you a visitor?” We introduced ourselves and when Dan volunteered that he is usually very introverted, I complemented him on greeting a stranger. It was clear that Dan was completely out of his comfort zone, and he humbly credited the Spirit with motivating him to reach out. We returned to our seats and I had to smile when the pastor then revealed his sermon title, “Do Not Neglect the Gift You Have.” In determining who will be allowed into heaven the Lord will say to those on His right, “For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in …” (Matt 25:35 NIV)

Continued Rejoicing

I was overjoyed and relieved to find my gold ring. Bill rejoiced with me, in part because I didn’t ask him to put on rubber gloves and become a Crime Scene Investigator to help me go through the trash piece by piece.

Bill lamented his experience with losing things in his 20 X 30 woodworking shop. “I know it’s in there; I just set it down in the wrong place, or else I’m looking right over the top of it.”

It strikes me that with the missing ring, the coin and Bill’s tools, none are totally lost — they each were somewhere in the house or the shop. We all have family and friends whom we suspect are spiritually lost, yet we can take a measure of comfort in the fact that the Lord always knows exactly where they are. “I have strayed like a lost sheep. Seek your servant, for I have not forgotten your commands” (Psalm 119:176 NIV).

Dumpster Diving

The other day while doing chores around the house I discovered the gold ring I had been wearing was missing. The ring has family significance and I looked in all the obvious places, while being thankful I had not gone out of the house other than to go to the mail box. As the day wore on, the more obsessed I became and I retraced my steps with greater determination.

I felt a kindred spirit to the woman in the parable of the lost coin; however, I think Jesus understated her search. I’m certain the woman did much more than light a lamp, sweep the house and search carefully for the coin. I made multiple dumpster diving trips through both large and small trash cans; inspected the garbage disposal; crawled on hands and knees with a flashlight looking under furniture; swept a path through the leaves to the mailbox  — and begged the Spirit for keen eyesight and wisdom.

The next day as I sorted out the curlers I used for giving my mother-in-law a hair permanent I found the ring in the thrice searched bowl of curlers. And yes, I called others to rejoice with me!

The point of the parable is finding the lost, but I’d never considered the Lord dumpster diving in order to find some of us. Jesus said, “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke 15:10 NIV).

Halloween

Lydia, my nine year-old granddaughter, recently had the end of her middle finger cut off in some play equipment. It was traumatizing and I worried about how she would react when the bandages were removed and she saw for the first time that her three middle fingers were now all the same length. The bandages were removed and a blackened nub, topped with black stiches was revealed. Lydia studied her finger and said, “Oh…It looks like Frankenfinger!” Obviously the length of her finger is not a priority. “Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children” (Proverbs 17:6 NIV).

Life Center

Many churches have an area known as a fellowship hall, or an activity center. Recently I drove passed a church with signs and arrows pointing to two separate buildings; one to the Sanctuary and the other to the Life Center.  The connotation that a building is a life center would no doubt give the Apostle John heartburn. John’s gospel made it clear to Jews and Gentiles alike that life is in Jesus. “In him was life, and that life was the light of men” (John 1:4 NIV).

Yea Though I Walk

Bill had an appointment at the Bonfils Blood Center in Denver and because we’d taken a trial run the month before, we knew exactly where to go and how long it would take to get there. Knowing the layout of the land removed a huge layer of stress; even if all of our preparation did cause us to arrive 45 minutes earlier than necessary. Over the years I’ve lost friends, loved ones and acquaintances and I’m always bewildered by those who, by all appearances, approach death without some sort of a plan — either earthly, or spiritually. I’m now wondering if these folks have ever considered the lay of the land, “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me” (Psalm 23:4 KJV).

A Case for Road Rage

Recently while driving in Denver during rush hour I tried to leave space between me and the driver ahead of me, but cars taking advantage of the space I’d left and kept cutting in. It wasn’t long before I started snugging up to the bumper of the guy in front of me — just to keep other cars from invading my space. I know my attitude was wrong, but that didn’t stop me from trying to find a Scripture that might somehow justify my actions. Paul said, “You were running a good race. Who cut in on you and kept you from obeying the truth” (Galatians 5:7 NIV)?

Knock, Knock

In the recent newspaper comic strip, “WuMo” a cartoon character returned to his apartment to find a note taped to the door which said, “I knocked and knocked – sorry I missed you! [Signed] Opportunity.” For me the cartoon character is a perfect illustration of the self-deluded church in Laodicea. The Lord says to this church, “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me” (Rev 3:20 NIV).

Empty Cup

I visited a church that offered open communion, but the setup had me curious. The communion table was set with individual wafers and two large goblets of wine. I assumed all the worshippers would drink out of a communal goblet, with the rim of the cup wiped after each use. However, before the worshippers went to the altar they filed past two ushers holding communion trays. Each person picked up an empty thimble sized cup which was then filled from the larger goblet. What struck me was the image of the ushers serving empty cups and understanding that without the shedding of blood there can be no forgiveness of sin. “In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me” (1 Cor 11:25 NIV).

Fear of God

In a recent sermon a pastor said, “The Ten Commandments direct us in a way that is good for us.” I suppose there is nothing wrong with the statement, but it seems to make the Ten Commandments somewhat discretionary. Moses delivered the Commandments amidst thunder, lightning, the trumpet, and smoke on the mountain — and the people trembled with fear. Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning” (Exodus 20:20 NIV).

If You Like Your …

A current television commercial is selling dental insurance and their unfortunate choice of words, “If you like your dentist you can keep your dentist,” only serves to remind consumers of the false promises of Obamacare. On the spiritual level we hear the same message from new age folks who purport that all religions lead to God, “If you like your god you can keep your god.” Many people forget that our God is a jealous God, “I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery. You shall have no other gods before me” (Exodus 20:2-3 NIV).

Figment of Imagination

In the middle of giving Bill a haircut he said, “I’m listening to the snip of the scissors and picturing in my mind how each cut looks, but I just realized I’m picturing black hair!” We both had a good laugh because Bill hasn’t had black hair in years. Now I’m wondering what exactly he sees when he looks in the mirror every morning. James shares a similar observation, “Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like” (James 1:23-24 NIV).

Go and Sin No More

On an individual basis we’re not surprised when people outside God’s will, those who deliberately practice sin, fail to receive God’s blessing. In my mind the same thought process applies to denominations that choose to embrace sin. The Vatican recently ended an assembly focused on the family and they are still struggling with their stance on gays. Cardinal Gianfranco Ravasi of Italy compared the gay issue to the woman caught in adultery, “Like Christ with the adulteress, his response is to welcome her, but then to tell her not to sin again.” Not all of the Catholic leadership were on the same page and the final document to come out of the assembly says that gays must be met with respect and sensitivity — which goes along with Ravasi’s thought of welcoming. Interestingly there was no reference to, “don’t sin again.” When Jesus wrote on the ground all the accusers left the scene and no one remained to condemn the woman caught in adultery.  Jesus declared, “Then neither do I condemn you. Go now and leave your life of sin.” (John 8:11 NIV).

Sent

Before Bill can begin a new vaccine treatment for prostate cancer he must have a special heavy-duty port surgically installed. Unfortunately he keeps getting sent to surgeons who thought they were dealing with a normal size port, and when they realize they can’t do the installation we have to go through another referral process. Taking this scenario to a spiritual level I wonder if something similar happens to new believers. We want to help them mature so we refer them to devotional books, DVD’s of prominent preachers, or to a fellowship group. Seldom do we send them to the right place for maturing — the Bible and Jesus.

Wiping the Slate Clean

Every once in a while my grandkids will come to visit and, like carrying their backpacks, they come carrying their punishment. The last time 11 year-old David came over he had lost his TV and video privileges for a week and he still had two more days to serve on his sentence. The punishment may have fit the crime, but the grandma in me wanted to pardon David and let him start over with a clean slate. We cannot know the mind of God, but it gives me a warm feeling to think that He too wanted to just wipe our slate clean.

Rabbit Trails

I’ve heard quite a few sermons where the message gets derailed with extraneous examples and sidebars. Lately I’ve listened to a couple of expository preachers and was surprised to see that they too take rabbit trails — biblical rabbit trails. If I weren’t knowledgeable in the Word I’d have been clueless as to the references.  Unfortunately many speakers and preachers fail to realize that when they take detours in their message we in the audience don’t simply wait for them to get back on track, we follow them down the rabbit trail.

Faux Church

While visiting with a member of the clergy we discussed the number of churches in town and he brought up the fact that his friend had a home church. I soon realized the church he was describing was one I had tried unsuccessfully to contact. I told the pastor I was bewildered because I intended to visit the church or do a telephone interview, but the phone number was incorrectly listed and I had no response to my email on the web site. “Oh no, I’m sure he wouldn’t want to be interviewed for an article; they’re just a small home church.” Curious. There are a lot of people who favor a home church over the collective church, but I don’t understand putting a listing in the newspaper if you didn’t want visitors or exposure. I can’t help but wonder if these folks are trying to legitimize being a church in their own mind, to their friends and family, or to the IRS.

The Dead

“The Walking Dead,” a television horror drama series based on a comic book series, is about flesh-eating zombies.  “Dead Man Walking” is a movie about a murderer on death row. It strikes me that both of these titles are a startling and an apt description of those who have rejected, or not accepted Jesus. When the Sadducees questioned Jesus about the resurrection and He said, “But about the resurrection of the dead—have you not read what God said to you, ‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’? He is not the God of the dead but of the living.”(Matt 22:31-31 NIV).

Incubation

When I was raising my children I knew the incubation periods for measles, mumps and chicken pox; and what symptoms to watch out for. Today we are becoming acutely aware of the symptoms and the 21 day incubation for Ebola. It strikes me that sin has some similarities to a deadly virus — unfortunately we don’t take it as seriously. James said, “… but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full–grown, gives birth to death” (James 1:14-15 NIV).

Revealing

Sermons about the great white throne of judgment often reference how surprised people will be when they stand before the Lord and the books are opened to reveal what is recorded about the things they have done in life. During a recent sermon the pastor put forth an interesting suggestion that potentially puts people before the Lord now. He suggested we pray asking God, “To show you your standing before Him.” I know that my name is written in the book of life, but I think maybe I’d just rather be surprised on that Day to see which of my works will be burned up in the fire. “If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man’s work. If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. If it is burned up, he will suffer loss; he himself will be saved, but only as one escaping through the flames” (1 Cor 3:12-15 NIV).

Judge Not

I’m getting interesting and encouraging feedback from people on the articles I’ve written about visiting local churches. After reading the online column one friend emailed me, “I read your church article. Excellent coverage, non-judgmental, and very specific.” Another was impressed that I wrote about my experience without bias or slamming other denominations. I value these opinions, but it crossed my mind that these friends feared the analysis of worship services would be judgmental. The concept for reporting on worship services is similar to the disciples of John the Baptist who were sent out to see if Jesus was the one to come, or if they should expect someone else. When they came to Jesus He told them, “Go back and report to John what you hear and see …” (Matt 11:4 NIV).

From the Heart

A recent headline in the newspaper announced, “Gospel meeting led by Holy Spirit.” I had to laugh imagining the Spirit trying to corral any and all speakers who show up ready to talk as they are inspired to speak by the Holy Spirit. The leader of the meeting said they will have some readings out of the Bible, but added, “We speak from the heart; we don’t write anything down.” I’m sure these folks are well intended, but unfortunately not everything that comes from the heart can be trusted. Jesus said, “But the things that come out of the mouth come from the heart, and these make a man ‘unclean.’ For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander” (Matt 15: 18-19 NIV).

Amen

I attended a liturgical church that interspersed Scripture and responsive readings with two extra-biblical readings. One reading was from Anselm of Canterbury, appointed Archbishop of Canterbury (1033-1109); and the other from medieval spiritual writer and English mystic Julian of Norwich (1342-1414). While both readings contained theological insight, the passages were read in unison with no time to reflect on the content or to measure the thoughts against Scripture. Although Paul was specifically referring to the subject of talking in tongues, I found myself in a similar position where I was unable to say amen to what was said. “If you are praising God with your spirit, how can one who finds himself among those who do not understand say “Amen” to your thanksgiving, since he does not know what you are saying” (1 Cor 14:16 NIV)?

Accommodating

I’ve visited one church that had cigarettes butts littering the sidewalk, and another church had a cigarette butt receptacle prominently stationed outside the entrance. Last Sunday a newer member in my congregation, who occasionally steps out for a smoke, decided this day to smoke an electronic cigarette during the worship services. I’m beginning to wonder if people aren’t taking the lyric in the praise song, “Come, Now is the Time to Worship” just a little too literally — “Come just as you are to worship …”

Still a Blessing

Virginia, who is 102 years-old, has been attending a local church for two years. Last Sunday she walked unaided to the front of the church auditorium and placed (transferred) her membership. Speaking to the congregation she said, “I want you to know you have been a blessing to me, and I hope I will be a blessing to you. I’ve felt like a visitor for the last two years and now I feel like I belong.” I had to laugh because Virginia, who has been a Christian for over 80 years, immediately became the oldest member of the congregation. “Gray hair is a crown of splendor; it is attained by a righteous life” (Proverbs 18:31 NIV).

From Son to Sacrifice

Sometimes I grow so accustomed to a biblical story that I overlook the obvious. During a recent sermon the pastor spoke about God’s test of Abraham which required him to sacrifice his son Isaac. The pastor said, “As soon as God spoke to him, his only son Isaac was dead to him.”  His comment did not fit my image of Abraham’s mental struggle to fulfill God’s requirement. After rereading the text (Gen 22:1-19) I think the pastor was spot on. From the moment God delivered his decision to Abraham, Isaac was no longer a son, but a sacrifice. For Abraham there was no hint of hesitation, “Early the next morning Abraham got up and saddled his donkey. He took with him two of his servants and his son Isaac. When he had cut enough wood for the burnt offering, he set out for the place God had told him about” (Gen 22:3-4  NIV).