The Christian Ear is a forum for discussing and listening to the voice of today's church. The Lord spoke to churches,“He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.” Rev 2&3
August 19, 2011
Bird’s Eye View
There was a recent news report about a wealthy Arab man who owns a
private island. Mr. Hamad memorialized himself by designing a two mile long
waterway that spelled out his name in capital letters. The name HAMAD is in
such large print that it can clearly be seen from space. Someone needs to tell
Mr. Hamad that shouting at God won’t get him noticed.
August 18, 2011
Changing the Formula
I recently heard a presentation where an organization that is dependent
on government funding justified their fee increase by changing their formula
for assessing dues. Then I read where
the State implemented a new formula for calculating ACT scores and now records
are being set for the highest scores Colorado has seen in 10 years. Sadly we in
the religious arena are no different. Rather than being obedient to God’s Word,
individuals and denominations offer up changes in formula to one another so
that we are socially acceptable and can continue in our sin.
August 17, 2011
Inside Voice
I have a teacher friend who reminds her students coming in from recess
of the need to tone down their volume and use their inside voice. Now I know as
mature adults we can’t (or won’t) use that tactic on one another, but I think
the idea has merit. All too often what is in our heads comes right out our
mouth. Because we have the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, imagine how much
better off we would be if we were reminded to use our Inside Voice.
August 16, 2011
Remedies
One of our political activists is such a bully that my wishful thinking
leads to thoughts of ways to marginalize his attacks. I’m not thinking anything
too serious, but laryngitis, job transfer or a doctor imposed quarantine might
all offer a reprieve. Lately this particular activist has uncharacteristically
missed some local meetings, so a few of us were asking one another, “So where’s Waldo?” Would you believe it…God,
with His sense of humor, sent him on a three week vacation.
August 15, 2011
Mission Accomplished
A service man returning from Afghanistan told the media that that their
unit’s mission was accomplished. Forming a leading question one reporter then
asked the soldier about the men who were lost on the mission and would not be
returning. The soldier confidently responded, “Their mission was accomplished.” In the church we often grieve over
what seems to be the untimely loss when a faithful servant dies. Maybe our
faith would be better served if we too looked at a fellow believer’s passing as
being a mission accomplished.
August 12, 2011
Continued…
Six year-old Lydia was only moderately impressed with her craft project
of six paintable refrigerator magnates. Trying to generate some enthusiasm I
showed her the prince, princess and the enchanted castle. In a sing-song voice
she said, “They’re OK…I’m just not a very
good painter. I can’t stay in the lines all the time.” I finally eased her worries
by showing her the lopsided ceramic bear (or dog…depending on your imagination)
with one short leg that her daddy made when he was a child. Once her spirit of
perfectionism was neutralized, she had a great time being creative. I can’t fault
Lydia’s initial reaction. Even as an adult, God will sometimes give me an
opportunity and I can hear myself unenthusiastically saying, ‘I’m just not very good, I can’t stay in the
lines…’
August 11, 2011
Home Run
My grandkids were having a sleepover so I picked up a couple of craft
projects to help keep them entertained. Eight year-old David was beyond
ecstatic with putting together three pre-cut wooden race cars. Following the
instructions he and his granddad glued, sanded, painted and applied stencils. I
knew I’d hit it out of the park with the craft selection when David continued
to be excited and even started imagining himself being skilled enough to now
start building furniture. Jesus said, “If
you…know how to give good gifts to you children, how much more will your Father
in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!” (Matt 7:11 NIV) I can only
imagine the pleasure God gets watching us get excited over the gifts He gives
us.
August 10, 2011
What a Waste
A letter writer to Dear Abby said, “I
don’t want to waste my life watching her [mother] waste hers.” I think many of us who have friends and loved ones
captive to addictions can relate to the writer. I’ve certainly experienced
times when it seemed like another person’s addiction was draining the life out
of me. Carrying that thought into the spiritual realm, I’m now wondering if we
don’t have the same sort of feelings when it comes to non-believing loved ones.
Are there times when we are so desperate for others to come to the Lord that
our life gets consumed by their failure to accept Jesus Christ? It seems
possible that some of us might be wasting our life by watching a non-believer
waste his life.
August 09, 2011
Careful What You Ask For
In the next 60 days petitions will begin circulating to recall our
three County Commissioners. I find the more pressing issue of a recall is the
proposed candidate replacements. Without candidate competition and a campaign
the voter doesn’t have time to fully vet the proposed replacements. So my
question would be, could we be worse off with replacements? Reasoning that they
wanted to be like other nations, the Israelites asked for a king to rule over
them rather than the Prophets. God let them have their kings – the good, bad
and the ugly.
August 08, 2011
Life Expectancy
The average life expectancy for a US citizen is 78 years-old and I
think many of us live with that measure in mind. When I heard of a Birthday
celebration for Mary Phelps who just turned 111 years-old, I couldn’t help but
wonder if she had ever prepared herself to live 33 years beyond her average. In
the generations from Adam to Noah the men lived anywhere from 700 to 900 years
old. As a general rule people procrastinate, can you imagine how long people
might put off accepting Christ if they lived to be 700 years old?
August 05, 2011
Minority Report
Some of those in Congress were elected because of their campaign
promises to their Tea Party constituents. I listened to reporter and talk show
host Geraldo Rivera bemoaning the fact that he is losing money on his
retirement funds and insisting that it’s time for these newly elected officials
to forget about those constituents back home and to do what is best for the
nation. In the church we too are sometimes encouraged and pressured to do what
seems best for the majority. However, I think it’s good to remind ourselves
that it’s actually the minority who gains eternal life. “But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only
a few find it” (Matt 7:14 NIV)
August 04, 2011
Referee
When my children were young they would occasionally try to boss each
other around and I would have to step in and remind them of their position…that
neither of them were the parent, nor the adult. I now find myself in an
interesting position where a colleague wants to boss me around, which then
triggers the childhood reaction that says, ‘You’re
not my boss and you can’t tell me what to do’. In time we may get our
differences worked out, but I can’t help but secretly wish that God would step in
and remind both of us of our positions.
August 03, 2011
Closet Tither
Learning to pry my fingers off of my tithe was a defining moment in my
Christian maturity. As believers we can help each other turn the other cheek,
doing unto others and praying, but when it comes to giving tithes and offerings
we don’t ask for help. We hold our pocket book close to our chest, not wanting
anyone – friends, family or foe – to know our tithing habits. Jesus cautioned
us not to be boastful when giving to the needy, but I have to chuckle when I
think of modern day titiers…most of us have little to boast about.
August 02, 2011
High Road
A letter writer to Dear Abby was divorcing her husband of 10 years for
infidelity. The writer wanted advice on letting other people know the reason
for the divorce and that she was not responsible. Abby’s advice was to consider
the feelings of the children and take the more dignified high road by saying
that it was a mutual decision. I am so glad Abby wasn’t handing out advice to
those who wrote the Bible. Somehow I can’t imagine Paul looking the other way
in regard to sin in order to take the high road.
August 01, 2011
Drop-Ins
My local Toastmasters’ Club dissolved because we don’t have enough
committed people attending to take leadership positions. Over the last few
years the standard justification has been, “My
schedule is so busy that I can’t commit to regular attendance, but I’ll come
when I can.” There is sometimes a similar attitude in the church. Not only
is it used as an excuse, but surprisingly we accept it as a perfectly
reasonable explanation. Really, can you see any of us getting away with telling
the Lord that were pretty busy, but we’ll drop in when we can?
July 29, 2011
Forced
Recently I was caught in bumper to bumper, stop n’ go traffic on I-70
for over 40 minutes. My irritation level climbed as some drivers snuck around
the pack by driving on the left shoulder of the road. I found myself snuggled
up to the car in front of me just to keep other drivers from forcing their way
in as they jockeyed for position. Eventually the logjam cleared and my attitude
improved. An hour later I came upon an accident that required traffic to merge
into one lane and I willingly held back so the semi-tractor trailer next to me
could move in front of me. He smiled and waved a thank you and it felt really
nice to have done a simple courtesy. I pondered the difference in my reactions
between having a choice to let someone merge and being forced to let someone
merge.
July 28, 2011
Lucky Dog
I saw a bumper sticker that read, ‘An
Obedient Dog is a Happy Dog’. Watching a dog being totally absorbed in
pleasing his master brings a smile to one’s face. I think something similar
could be said about believers. We really are happy when we’re obedient…it’s
just the obedience training that sometimes wipes the smile off our faces. “This is love for God: to obey his
commands. And his commands are not burdensome…” (1 John 5:3 NIV)
July 27, 2011
Slow to Learn
Recently I watched a handful of adults maneuver to exclude a colleague
from their focus group. Their tactics included moving a name plate to another
location, tightening their circle of chairs so there was no room for anyone to
join and turning their backs toward the one they wanted to ostracize. The
writer of Hebrews reminds us that we too can be guilty of not maturing. “In fact, though by this time you ought to
be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word
all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who
lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about
righteousness.”
(Hebrews 5:12-13 NIV)
July 26, 2011
Lead Us Not Into Temptation
A metal barricade, warning signs and fellow hikers yelling words of
caution didn’t stop three young Christians from challenging a dangerous
waterfall at Yosemite National Park. I suppose the death of these young people
will be listed as accidental, but their actions were certainly deliberate.
Spiritually speaking we too crawl over barricades, ignore warning signs and
downplay the wisdom of others. And the danger doesn’t have to be the size of a
317-foot waterfall; it could resemble a simple irrigation ditch.
July 25, 2011
In Residence
It’s not unusual to see inspirational thoughts, Bible verses or quotes posted
on the walls of the church facility. Last Sunday I saw a dozen or so little
silver picture frames scattered about the building each displaying the same
verse. I was somewhat taken back to read, “He
is not here; he has risen!” (Luke 24:6a NIV) In a flash I had my very own
Mary-at-the-tomb-moment and thought, ‘I’m
at church, what do you mean He’s not here?’ I really do have to laugh when
I think about how many of us began our search for the Lord by going to the
church and expecting to find Him there.
July 22, 2011
Preview
I can’t help but wonder how Saul/Paul felt after he regained his sight
and Ananias told him about his new job description. “…This man is my chosen instrument to carry my name before the Gentiles
and their kings and before the people of Israel. I will show him how much
he must suffer for my name.” (Acts
19:15-16 NIV) I’m not sure I’d like the advanced warning on the suffering part.
However, there is one consolation. At least I’d be able to differentiate
between the suffering I brought upon myself by making poor choices and the
suffering that I did for the cause of Christ.
July 21, 2011
Feeling the Love
This week I attended a local government meeting where an angry
constituent told his elected officials, “If
you don’t vote ‘no’ for being a pass-through organization for grant funding,
then you don’t love your country.” I was embarrassed for the constituent on
a couple of different fronts. 1) He is a fellow believer and 2) he sounded
remarkably similar to many email chain letters that say, ‘If you don’t forward this email then you don’t love God’. It’s
amazing how far off base we can get when we are left to our own reasoning and
wisdom. Jesus said, “Greater love has no
one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13 NIV)
July 20, 2011
Sanitizing
After children’s church last week a visiting student excitedly told her
grandpa what the lesson was about. Grandpa was having a hard time relating to
what he was hearing, so he asked the teacher about the lesson. When he learned
it was about Eglon and Ehud (Judges 3:12) he was a little taken back, “Isn’t that story a little gory for kids?” It’s
interesting that we think skewering a fat king, hammering a tent peg into a
man’s head or being eaten by worms is gory. I think much of our weakness on
today’s religious landscape can be attributed to our sanitizing Scripture and
retelling only the warm fuzzy stories.
July 19, 2011
Laying at My Feet
A listening ear can sometimes be interpreted as an agreeable ear. For
many of us it’s hard to distinguish that fine line between hearing someone out
because everyone is entitled to his own opinion, or stopping an opinion by
pointing out when statements are in error and not factual. In hindsight I
usually regret not speaking up and thereby giving the impression I’m in
agreement. When I find myself in this, ‘I
wish I’d said…’ reflection, I can’t help but think of Saul watching over
the stoning of Stephen. I can only imagine (Saul) Paul’s later regrets at
keeping silent in the midst of false witnesses making false accusations. (Acts
7:54 - 8:1) I can’t help but wonder how often the clothes of false witnesses
have been laid at my feet.
July 18, 2011
Busybodies
Recently I was at a social event where a man was bending my ear with a
lot of misinformation, rumors and unfounded statements. My efforts to tell him
the truth and refute his accusations didn’t get far and he insisted his
statements were accurate. He referenced his source of information as being the
local coffee groups in town that were saying the same things. We are all familiar
with the Timothy passage (1 Tim 5:13) about idle women being busybodies and
gossips. However after a little Scripture research, I’m comfortable with putting
this particular man, his actions and his thought processes in the category of
being a gossip…quite the unmanly picture.
July 15, 2011
A Matter of Convenience
Fairly often I hear of older folks who need errands run or shuttle
service, but they don’t want to inconvenience their family, so they ask for
help from the church. Certainly we in
the church have an obligation and a responsibility to help one another, but I
have to laugh at the rational. Exactly why is it OK to inconvenience fellow
believers and friends, but we don’t want to inconvenience our family members? “If anyone does not provide for his
relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and
is worse than an unbeliever.” (1Tim 5:8 NIV)
July 14, 2011
Extreme Make Over
Elections seem to be all about ‘throwing
the bums out and replacing them with someone who will do what we want them to
do’. It appears to me that the threat of not being reelected to another
term just doesn’t seem to working. I’m wondering if, rather than throwing them
out of office, the existing elected officials should be pressured and forced
into doing the will of the people. It’s really not such a farfetched idea. When
we come to the Lord we more often than not fail in our role as Christians. But
the Lord doesn’t say, ‘throw the bums out
and get replacements’, instead He molds and reshapes us into His likeness. Surely
if sinners can be turned into saints, there’s hope for bums being turned into
productive public servants.
July 13, 2011
What’s in it for me?
When I served as President of the local Toastmasters Club I was
admittedly a little sensitive when the District Office put pressure on us to
increase our membership. I understand the importance and the benefits of having
a larger club; however I’ve never known anyone to place membership because they
wanted to grow the club. Most of us joined to improve our public speaking – to
get over fear, to polish a presentation or to be able to think fast on our
feet. I think the same can be said about
the church. Believers don’t come to Jesus because we want to grow the church;
we come because we want a personal relationship with the Son of God.
July 12, 2011
Dinner Guests
A colleague and I are seldom on the same page and I thought that going
to lunch together might help us mend a fence or two. He publicly rejected my
invitation saying, “I’m not going to eat
lunch with someone who doesn’t like me.” I have to laugh…my colleague’s
sentiments almost make the Pharisees of Jesus’ day seem righteous. Their
complaint was merely that Jesus and the disciples were eating with tax
collectors and sinners. (Matt 9:10-11)
July 11, 2011
Religion That’s Acceptable
I recently interviewed a gentleman who is 96 years-old. When Bob was single
and 35 years-old, he took his neighbor on a hunting trip that ended in tragedy.
Their car hit black ice and plunged into a canyon killing the friend. It was
apparent that even though 60 years had passed, it had not dimmed Bob’s grief, “I hated it. I hated to go back home and
face the widow…she had four small children.” Then with a sudden lift in
Bob’s voice he continued, “It ended up
that I married the widow with the four kids.” Bob and Gladys never had any
children of their own, but they were married for over 50 years when she passed
away. “Religion that God our Father
accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in
their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”
(James 1:27 NIV)
July 08, 2011
Out of Office Reply
Every once in awhile I’ll get a response back from an email that says, ‘Out
of Office Reply’ and I appreciate knowing it may be a day or so before I hear back from them. When I send out a spiritual-email I don’t always expect an immediate
response from the Spirit, but I know for a fact that He is always in the office.
When the Spirit sends messages to us I’m wondering if we sometimes let them fall
into the category of spam, failed mail or blocked mail. Worse yet, we’re
cautioned to not open a message unless we know the sender. It’s possible that
we don’t even open the message simply because we didn’t recognize the Sender.
July 07, 2011
Becoming Less
Many of us take ownership of our ministries and believe we have power
to keep them or give them away whenever we want. However there are times when
our ministries are snatched away from us or someone removes us from service. As
I read about the passion that John the Baptist had for his ministry, I’m struck
by how effortlessly he relinquished his role to Jesus. John might easily have
thought that he and Jesus could be co-leaders or that they could each keep
their ministry, but work in different locations. John might even have suggested
that he take the seniors and Jesus take the young adults and children. When changes of leadership come to our
personal areas of ministries, we should be as gracious as John was toward
Jesus, “He must become greater; I must
become less.” (John 3:30 NIV)
July 06, 2011
Sifting Instructions
During the Last Supper Jesus told Simon Peter that Satan asked to sift
you [Peter] as wheat. Peter responded, “Lord,
I am ready to go with you to prison and to death.” (Luke 22:33 NIV) I
suppose Peter’s response could have applied to the sifting remark, but it seems
to me that he just skipped over Satan’s request. Had it been me I think I would
have asked Jesus, ‘What exactly does it mean to be sifted as wheat? How long
does it last? Is it anything like what Job went through?’ Scripture tells me
what to do when I’m tempted by Satan (resist), but I’m not quite sure we’ve
been given sifting instructions.
July 05, 2011
Counting Sheep
Last Sunday one of our ladies fainted right before church started and
the ambulance was called. The responders included the police, fire department
and EMT’s numbering about 10 people. Virginia was accompanied to the hospital
by her husband Don, an old time preacher/overseer/shepherd of the flock. Once
the emergency was past and Virginia was safe in the doctor’s care, I’m pretty
sure Don was thinking we should be able to add those emergency personnel to our
attendance for the week. So the question
begs, exactly how long does a warm body need to be in the building before you
can add them to the count?
July 04, 2011
Independence Day
We had the grandkids (ages eight and six) for a sleepover this weekend
and they enjoyed a little taste of freedom. They played on the slip n’ slide
until they decided to quit, chose to eat corn dogs and Cheetos over broccoli
and stayed up two hours past their normal bedtime. Our grown-up feelings of freedom
aren’t quite as easy to come by. However, as believers, we are told that
creation will be, “…liberated from its
bondage to decay and brought into the glorious freedom of the children of God.”
(Ro 8:21b NIV)
July 01, 2011
Growth Rings
Our neighbor’s large tree branches were hanging over into our yard so
this spring we did some serious tree trimming. A few of the limbs had to be cut
off from the main trunk and were well over a foot in diameter. Not wanting to
miss an educational opportunity we let the grandkids count the rings on the
stump, showing that the trees were well over 40 years old. We pointed out the
growth pattern of wider rings indicate a good water cycle for that year. I’m
wondering if sometime the Lord cuts into my heart just to check out my
spiritual growth pattern.
June 30, 2011
Witness Protection
I think the disciples were somewhat naïve when they first began
following Jesus. However Jesus didn’t downplay what they could expect when he
told them about the persecution, being delivered to synagogues and prisons and even
being brought before kings and governors all on account of Jesus’ name. I can
so relate. When I ran for public office I naively thought I would be serving my
community and trying to set good policy…it never crossed my mind that my real
job was to be a witness to others. “But
make up your mind not to worry beforehand how you will defend yourselves. For I will give you words and wisdom that none of your adversaries
will be able to resist or contradict.” (Luke 21:14-15 NIV)
June 29, 2011
Turning Water Into Living Water
After three days I was preparing for yet another hour long dusty and
dry class. However I was pleasantly refreshed by Colorado Supreme Court Justice
Gregory Hobbs’ presentation on water management. As he talked about the “singing of working waters, the life giving
sustenance of water” and “water blessing
everything it touches”, I overlaid his descriptions with the waters of
baptism and now I’m wondering if I’ve been missing something. Regardless of
size, when I see a body of water, I should also see its potential to become the
waters of baptism. “The eunuch said,
“Look, here is water. Why shouldn’t I be baptized?...Then both
Philip and the eunuch went down into the water and Philip baptized him” (Acts 8:36-38 NIV)
June 28, 2011
Contingencies
At a recent conference I attended a session titled, Budgeting 101,
managing the public checkbook. Among my take-a-ways from the class was the
fact that a department head’s draft budget is often filled with contingencies.
Rather than budgeting for the ordinary, they budget for the unexpected and the
‘what if’ situations. It often follows that at the end of the year they have a
‘use it or lose it’ philosophy. I’m thinking that my prayer life may be filled
with a few contingencies, seldom do I pray just for the ordinary. “Give us today our daily bread.” (Matt
6:11 NIV)
June 27, 2011
Floodgates
On the news we’re hearing that the floodgates on the Mississippi River are
being opened in an effort to prevent flooding. I was reminded of an incident a
couple of years ago where a local political activist threatened to open the
floodgates of opposition if elected officials ignored his demands. I never quite figured if the activist
misjudged the political water depth, or if he had the wrong key to the gate. “For by the grace given me I say to every
one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather
think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith
God has given you.” (Ro 12:3 NIV)
June 24, 2011
Compassionate
Fairly often I see a TV commercial soliciting $25 to buy a food box for
Holocaust Survivors. I don’t mind the thought that my contribution will show
these elderly people that someone cares. However, a couple of their assertions
cause me pause. “You can bring the
blessing of God back into their lives…You will show them that God cares about
what they have endured in their life.” I just can’t think that God would be
pleased by those statements. If God’s blessings have gone out of my life, a $25
food box will not bring it back. It seems to me that those who came through the
Holocaust would recognize that God cares about what they have endured in their
life…their survival alone is proof of His caring.
June 23, 2011
Wrong Key
The Southern Baptist
Convention just passed a resolution advocating a path to legal status for
illegal immigrants. A newspaper article reported that the SBC, ‘which has been declining in membership and
baptisms in recent years, sees ethnic diversity as one of the keys to a
turnaround’. I can imagine the Spirit being offended at the thought that
ethnic diversity somehow is a key to more baptisms.
June 22, 2011
Doing the Calculations
I have a colleague who both privately and publically bemoans the fact that
we have lengthy meetings. It’s not unusual for a candidate or volunteer to look
at a job opportunity and think, ‘The job
looks easy, it will only take three or four hours a month. I can easily fit
that into my already busy schedule.’ For most of us, doing a job and doing
it right requires a lot more time investment than we thought. There is always a
cost associated with everything we do, even a cost to being a disciple. Jesus
said, “Suppose one of you wants to build
a tower. Will he not first sit down and estimate the cost to see if he has
enough money to complete it?” (Luke 14:28 NIV)
June 21, 2011
Belt of Truth
Recently a colleague publically accused me of going on a witch hunt for
political purposes and that my actions were, ‘mean-spirited, vindictive,
vial and disgusting.’ There was a
time that I would have wilted under such criticism, regardless of whether or
not there was any truth to the sentiments – but no more. I think my reactions
are different because of a wardrobe change. Today I wouldn’t be caught dead
outside the house without being dressed in the Amour of God. (Eph 6:14)
June 20, 2011
Stay Here and Keep Watch
When I was in the
Navy everyone took a rotation of standing watch. My station was in the women’s
barracks and I learned to be grateful for the regiment of walking the halls
making bed checks, securing exits and writing logs. Had it not been for the
structured requirements of the job it would have been difficult to stay awake.
Twice at Gethsemane Jesus asked his disciples (Peter James and John) to stay
and keep watch while he went away to pray. Each time he returned he found them
asleep because their eyes were heavy. Without excuse, “They did not know what to say to him.” I think that had they grasped
the duties and responsibilities of keeping watch, they wouldn’t have fallen
asleep. (Mark 14:32-41)
June 17, 2011
Showing Dirt
A deciding factor on some of my purchases is whether or not the item
will show dirt. A light color car always looks cleaner than a dark color car. A
coffee spill or grease spot can be seen on a solid colored shirt easier than on
a patterned shirt. I even picked out my kitchen counter tops based on the fact that
the texture and multicolor would hide the stains, wear and tear. My selection
worked all too well and now I find it’s almost impossible to keep the counters
clean. Because I can’t see the spills and food crumbs in a small area I have to
wipe down the entire counter to make sure it’s clean. I’m wondering if I do
something similar when put myself in situations where the dirt of sin will be
hard to detect and not always cleaned off. In the world my sin is not going to
show as easily as it does in the believer’s world.
June 16, 2011
Records of Wrongs
I find myself in an awkward and somewhat spiritually unhealthy
situation. I have to document events in order to protect myself and have a
clear recollection of certain situations. Each time I make additions to the
documentation I’m reminded of all the infractions. In essence I am not letting
go of the past, but actually keeping it alive because I’m keeping a record of
wrongs. We often hear it said that it’s easier to forgive than to forget…but
I’m thinking that both are easier than keeping a record.
June 15, 2011
The Cloud
Rather than storing data on our computers, the industry now wants all
of us to store our data in The Cloud. The promotions say when you need the
data, you simply reach up to and retrieve what you need. When I hear people
talk about the cloud my mind goes to the book of Hebrews. Here the writer gives
us the image of a great cloud of witnesses (heroes of faith) who cheer us on as
we run our race. “…let us throw off
everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run
with perseverance the race marked out for us.” (Heb 12:1b
NIV) I have to say that I’m much more confident in the cloud of witnesses than
I’ll ever be in the data cloud.
June 14, 2011
Simon the Cyrene
On the way to Golgotha Simon the Cyrene didn’t volunteer to carry the
cross for Jesus, he was forced to carry it. There are times when I’ve been coerced
into carrying a cross that doesn’t seem like it’s mine and I feel anger, resentment…and
then guilt for being selfish and unloving. We have no way of knowing what Simon
felt on the way to Golgotha, but I can imagine that after the Lord’s
resurrection he saw carrying the cross of Jesus in a whole new light.
June 13, 2011
Burdens
I write a weekly newsletter for church and the feature article is an
interview of someone in the congregation. A recent story was about a young
woman who escaped an abusive relationship and later married a nice young man.
Tragically the young woman was widowed eight years later and left to raise her
daughter as a single parent. The mother of the young woman was surprised that
her daughter would even consider doing an interview, much less be so open.
After reading the article the mother said, “She
has told you things that I’ve never known…things she’s never shared with me.”
Because the young woman took a chance and gave us a glimpse into her life, we
have a better understanding of what she may need from the church family. “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way
you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Gal 6:2 NIV)
June 10, 2011
People of Prayer
Because of some
recent political drama I’ve had a lot people telling me that they were praying
for me. I’m grateful and appreciative of any and all prayers, but two
individuals intervening on my behalf have never really struck me as being
people of prayer. It may be that they recognize I’m a person of faith, and
knowing I value prayer, this is their way to support me. “Each one had a harp and they were holding golden bowls full of
incense, which are the prayers of the saints.” (Rev 5:8b NIV) I always thought
it might be interesting to take a look-see at those captured prayers of the
saints…but now I’m thinking about my own contribution to the bowl over the
years.
June 09, 2011
Ruby Rings
My mother-in-law
wears a ruby ring which she found by a railroad track in Oklahoma when she was
a child. There has always been speculation as to why the ring was in that
location. Did the owner break an engagement and toss it out the train window?
Was it stolen property? Was a child using it to play dress-up and accidently
dropped it? After the recent tornados there are parts of people’s lives strewn
for miles across the mid-west. There could be ruby rings in lakes, ponds and
trees. “The kingdom of heaven is like
treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in
his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.” (Matt 13:44 NIV)
June 08, 2011
Mary Magdalene Experience
When people come to the Lord later in life they often have a more
dramatic God experience than the rest of us. For the last few years my daughter
has been under a great deal of strain because of leasing a car rather than
buying a car on payments. This month she reached the end of the lease and was
able to turn in the keys. With a new day dawning she laughed, “What a relief. This is probably the closest
thing I’ve ever felt to what a new believer experiences when he accepts Christ.
The burden is lifted, your sins are forgiven and you can walk away from your
old life free and clear.”
June 07, 2011
Revealing
Sometimes we look to preachers, teachers and fellow believers to mature
us in the faith. And then there are those seasons in our life when we take
responsibility for our own growth and education in the Word. I think there is
another origin of understanding that we often fail to recognize and that is the
insight which comes directly from the Spirit. We normally look to one another and to
ourselves for answers, but few of actually recognize when the Spirit reveals
things to us. Peter declared Jesus to be the Christ, the Son of the living God,
and Jesus replied, “Blessed
are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by man, but by my
Father in heaven.” (Matt
16:17 NIV)
June 06, 2011
Taking Stock
Two years ago Wal-Mart discontinued name brand products supposedly to “…tidy up stores for the wealthier customers
it had won during the recession.” The store is now going to spend the next
nine months aggressively trying to restock and regain the customers they are
losing. I see some similarities between the church and Wal-Mart. Almost all
mainline churches have gone through some deliberate renovations, whether they
have eliminated Sunday School, tossed out hymnals or dressed down to Sunday
casual. They may have gained a new demographic, but they also lost many
faithful and mature members. I do see one big difference between the Wal-Mart
decision makers and church leadership…Wal-Mart knows when to regroup and get
back to their base. Church leadership on the other hand have spent years
justifying their dismantling of the church and implying that their actions were
God-led. I can see where it would be a little difficult for them to now go back
to the basics and sell people on the idea that God has somehow changed His
mind.
June 03, 2011
Afraid of Heights
It’s been fun watching our fledging church spread her wings. Even
though our preaching elder continually improves in the presentation of the
message, I haven’t detected people trying to put him on a pedestal. It may be
that the majority of our membership is the type who’s older and more mature in
the Word and knows better than to pedestal men. Personally I see a preacher
with a humble spirit who is just one of our number and is wise enough to be
afraid of heights.
June 02, 2011
Security
Last fall I became eligible for Social Security and the small in
stature check is automatically deposited. At first it was only when I received
my bank statement at the end of the month that I realized I’d failed to enter
the deposit into the check register. As a reminder I’ve now started penciling
in the check amount two or three months in advance because I can depend on it
being deposited and being the same amount each month. You would think that same
security would somehow translate into spiritual matters. Maybe I need to start
writing some of those Bible promises in my day timer to remind me that the Lord
had already deposited them into my account, ‘fear
not…, greater is He that is in you…you cannot be tempted beyond…’
June 01, 2011
P B & J
Recently I was a bystander in a conversation where one person asked
another, “And how are you doing?” In response it was mentioned that the family
would have no money coming in for two weeks, but it was also stated three
times, “We have nothing left to eat but
beans and peanut butter, so we’ll be eating a lot of chili and peanut butter
sandwiches.” Although the family is in a dire situation, members of the church
family have and will continue to help them. While I am sympathetic to the food
situation, I was also reminded of my family’s stories of the Great
Depression…all they had to eat were beans, they would have given their left leg
to have had the peanut butter. We believers are often guilty of focusing on
what we don’t have, rather than rejoicing that the Lord has provided the beans
and peanut butter.
May 31, 2011
Playing Dress-Up
Last Sunday a little boy of about six or seven years old came to church
wearing a button down dress shirt that was one size too large and a man’s
clip-on necktie. The end of the tie reached almost to his hips, but he was
beaming with pride at being able to dress-up like a man. Isn’t this just the
same picture of believers when we first try to put on the Armor of God? The
only piece of the armor that actually fits is the Helmet of Salvation.
May 30, 2011
Over Shadowed Memorial
My father was a Navy veteran, but he was also an alcoholic and a less
than commendable dad. He passed away years ago and I have yet to visit his
grave site, even though I occasionally pass through the community where he is buried.
I have to admit that for me, his actions in life over shadow his military
contribution. I realize that in a sense I’m setting a double standard. It would
be wrong for me to begrudge my Dad being honored for service when I know that Christ’s
sacrifice on the cross is the only reason that God overlooks the actions in my
life.
Over Shadowed Memorial
My father was a Navy veteran, but he was also an alcoholic and a less
than commendable dad. He passed away years ago and I have yet to visit his
grave site, even though I occasionally pass through the community where he is buried.
I have to admit that for me, his actions in life over shadow his military
contribution. I realize that in a sense I’m setting a double standard. It would
be wrong for me to begrudge my Dad being honored for service when I know that Christ’s
sacrifice on the cross is the only reason that God overlooks the actions in my
life.
May 27, 2011
Squawk
An article in our local paper describes the efforts of a 5th
grader who is organizing a club to stop bullying. The strategy of the club is
to “talk, walk and squawk”, which
means ask the bully why they are being mean, walk away and tell an adult what
happened. I love it…maybe we in the church should adopt a similar slogan. Though
believers hate to label it as such, there are bullies in the church. Our normal
Biblical remedy for bullies is to take all our burdens to Him. However there is
also Scripture that directs us to talk and walk first…then we can squawk to the
Lord.
May 26, 2011
Miracles
I have a friend (a believer) who over the years has spread rumors,
gossiped and embellished situations. Recently an immediate member of his family
was stricken with a life threatening disease and now there is a noticeable
change in my friend. It appears that his prayers for a miracle are now intertwined
with asking forgiveness of those who have been his targets. It’s as though he
suspects that his past behavior might hinder his prayers for a miracle and he
is trying to make amends. Out of this sad situation I see shades of David’s
heart and I’m struck that miracles do come in all shapes and sizes.
May 25, 2011
She Did What She Could
It’s often subconscious, but we believers do compare ourselves to one
another in our service to the Lord. It may be that we feel guilty knowing we
should do more or we critique others thinking they aren’t doing as much as they
should or could. The cranky disciples were critical of Mary anointing Jesus
with perfume, but the Lord stops their criticism and draws attention to her
beautiful act of preparing Him for burial. In a sense Jesus actually anoints
Mary (and all of us) when He tells the disciples, “She did what she could...” (Mark 14:8 NIV)
May 24, 2011
In Style
I ponder the styles today, especially the frayed jeans with rips and
holes. Although it might well match their style, I can’t help but believe that
these young people wouldn’t be caught dead driving around in my husband’s old
dilapidated 1981 Ford trash truck. The body is rusted through, the sun visors
hang at an angle and the door handles are loose. We can indulge personal
choices to a degree, but there comes a time when, according to Jesus we are
expected to put on the wedding clothes. “But
when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not
wearing wedding clothes. ‘Friend,’ he asked, ‘how did you
get in here without wedding clothes?’ The man was speechless. “Then
the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside,
into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ “For many are invited, but few are chosen.” (Matt 22:11-14 NIV)
May 23, 2011
God is My Strength
When I hear people talk about God being their strength it conjures up
in my mind the thought of God lifting them up and getting them through trials
and tribulations. I seldom have the image of an already victorious man giving
credit to God for strength. Certainly the song lyrics, ‘when I am weak, He lifts me up’ are correct; however I’m wondering
if we should also in our strength be thinking, ‘when I am strong, He keeps me up’.
May 20, 2011
Advocate
Monday I mentioned Mikayla, severely autistic and unable to talk, but who
can communicate things like yes, no, sleep, come and go with limited sign
language. Mikayla was playing with her iPad when her younger sister started
playing with the iTouch. Signing to her mother, Mikayla said, “I want two.” meaning she wanted both
devices, not just one. Unable to convince her mother to let her have them both,
Mikayla came close to me and picked up my hand. Then taking my index finger she
decisively pointed it at her mother and then again signed, “two”. There was no doubt that Mikayla thought of me as her
advocate and that my finger had the power of persuasion over her mother. I
think there is a little of Mikayla in all of us. As believers we’re confident
that Jesus is our advocate, but we just can’t help but pick up His finger and
point it at whatever it is we think we just have to have. “Even now my witness is in heaven; my advocate is on high.” (Job
16:19 NIV)
May 19, 2011
Google Glitch
I haven’t been able to post blogs because of a glitch with Google blogspot,
so I’ve spent the last two and a half days repeatedly checking in at the site
to see if the problem is fixed. Sort of reminds me of impatiently checking in
with God when my prayers aren’t answered right away. “Listen
to my prayer, O God, do not ignore my plea; hear me and answer
me. My thoughts trouble me and I am distraught…” (Psalm 55:1-2 NIV)
May 16, 2011
Stealth
We just had a mini family reunion and one of those visiting was my severely autistic niece. Unable to talk, Mikayla uses limited sign language to get her point across. She loves beds, blankets and closets and when she saw my large walk in closet it was as though the heavens had opened up. Recognizing the glory on Mikayla’s face her mother Mandy redirected the 12 year-olds attention to another room, which didn’t have clothes for playing dress up. After about a half an hour later Mikayla emerged from the room in stealth mode. A light bulb went off in Mandy’s head and she laughed, “Oh, that’s it, she’s mad at me. She’s not looking at me and she’s trying to sneak back to the closet. She thinks I won’t see her.” The whole scene was so Adam and Eve-ish!
May 13, 2011
Pass It On
I used to tire of religious and political emails that say pass-it-on, but lately they just make me mad and I hit the delete button. Instructions that I must send the email on to others conjures up all kinds of resistance such as, ‘I’m capable of making my own decisions…, you’re not my parent…, and don’t tell me what to do!’ As believers we do something similar to others. Rather than allowing the Spirit to motivate them, we’re often busy trying to tell people what there gift is and then we take it a step further and let them know when, where and how we think they should use their gift for the Lord. It’s no wonder that some in the faith get burned out and hit the delete button.
May 12, 2011
The Enemy
Lately I’ve found myself in the strange position of championing a sect that, from a belief stand point, I oppose. I remembered that Jesus was in opposition to chief priests and teachers of the law, yet at least one of his secret followers was in fact a member of the Sanhedrin. However I think the most applicable Scripture for me comes from Paul, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” (Eph 6:12 NIV) I need to be reminded that the enemy is not flesh and blood.
May 11, 2011
Spam
Email spam used to be easier to identify, but the spammers are getting craftier all the time. Two that I’ve gotten in the past say, “The article is very professionally written. I enjoy reading Christianear.blogspot.com every day.” And, “You’ve got great points there, that’s why I always love checking out your blog.” I have to admit that just knowing the comments were false, didn’t stop them from striking a chord for my ego. No doubt we as believers are also guilty of using religious spam on one another. “I will show partiality to no one, nor will I flatter any man; for if I were skilled in flattery, my Maker would soon take me away.” (Job 32:21-22 NIV)
May 10, 2011
Silence Before the Shearer
In last Sunday’s newspaper a letter writer took pot shots at me in my position as an elected official. The writer said that I was, ‘devoid of experience, should be sent packing and that my service was a sham.’ [Not exactly what I wanted to read on Mother’s Day.] As I contemplated whether or not to respond to the writer the verse that came to me was, “He was oppressed and afflicted, yet he did not open his mouth; he was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is silent, so he did not open his mouth.” (Isaiah 53:7 NIV) It’s remarkable how Jesus could take the abuse and yet remain silent. I decided that in my situation I did indeed need to respond to the letter writer and I found a way to remain silent, yet still speak the truth.
May 09, 2011
National Day of Prayer
Last week while attending the National Day of Prayer a woman’s “amens” mixed with “yes, Jesus” were said throughout the public prayers. I considered her to be a sister of faith with a more charismatic bent, but I was surprised to learn that she was Catholic. Most of my knowledge of Catholicism is of traditions, ritual and structured worship. I’d wondered if their denomination was changing, or if I’d met my first charismatic Catholic. I’m now pondering how structured worship may in fact restrict the Spirit.
May 06, 2011
Locked Out
Awhile back we put a new electronic lock on the front door. Now I no longer have to check pockets and purse to locate keys before I close the door behind me. I love knowing that if I forget and leave the keys on the cabinet that I won’t be locked out…I can always get back in. I’m wondering if we believers feel something similar when it comes to sin. There is freedom in knowing that we have a repentance key which can always get us back into the right relationship with Christ.
May 05, 2011
Protective Custody
I like to watch a TV crime drama series titled ‘In Plain Sight’. It’s about the witness protection program where people are taken to a new location, given a new identity and must start a new life. Invariably the character being protected can’t stand leaving their old life behind…especially on such short notice. That so reminds me of our new life in Christ. We keep trying to find a way to let our new self walk arm and arm with our old self. Maybe those who struggle with being a new creation should start thinking in terms of just being in protective custody for awhile.
May 04, 2011
Choosers
I grew up hearing my family say, ‘beggars can’t be choosers’. For me the phrase has always been a reality and it still rolls off my tongue. Well, at least it did until a friend pointed out, “Only in America can beggars be choosers.” I have to admit, he is right. In America people can make more money begging than if they worked in a fast-food restaurant. Some folks have been known to refuse a job or a hand-up because it might cause them to lose their entitlements. Many of us would like to blame the cycle of State and Federal programs, but clearly Scripture doesn’t agree. “The sluggard’s craving will be the death of him, because his hands refuse to work. All day long he craves for more, but the righteous give without sparing.” (Proverbs 21:25-26 NIV)
May 03, 2011
His Glory
It seems like every time I turn around lately someone is heading into a crisis and even believers struggle a little as they come to grips with their situation. Recently one of my retired pastors was diagnosed with inoperable lung cancer. I know he will handle the situation well and I expected nothing less than a stoic response as he got his latest test results and prognosis. However, even from a faithful servant I find it thought provoking to hear, “To God be the glory.”
May 02, 2011
Love Your Enemies
Steve took an interesting direction commenting on the April 28th post, He Loves Them. For me, this is not a love vs. hate situation. It’s actually an acknowledgement that I have enemies. However, just because I have enemies, doesn’t necessarily mean that these people are God’s enemy. “For God so loved the world…” (John 3:16a) My enemy may be a family member or even a believing brother. I don’t want to hate them, I don’t want to love them…I just want them to go away and leave me alone. My current enemies have brought me to my knees and to Scripture…which both are getting well worn and callused.
April 29, 2011
Planning Ahead
I watched a segment of Dog the Bounty Hunter, which interestingly took place in our community. One of those arrested was incensed with his bondsman who had set up the sting that led to the capture. Handcuffed and speaking through a back seat car window the fugitive said to the bails bondsman, “What’s this all about? Why’d you do this to me man? This’ll be the last time I’m going to use you to bail me out!” Sort of reminds me how we believers sometimes plan ahead for our next sin.
April 28, 2011
He Loves Them
I’m learning to identify my enemies and Scripture is helping me find my footing on how I should respond and how the Lord will deal with them. Even though my current enemies have recently done some dastardly deeds, I’m convinced that the Lord loves them and will show them His love “…because the Lord disciplines those he loves…” (Proverbs 3:11-12 NIV)
April 27, 2011
Read My Lips
When talk show hosts allow their guests to talk over one another I usually hit the mute button on the remote. Recently during one shouting match, rather than the full screen showing guests sitting across from one another, they were displayed on a split screen. I muted the talking heads and then I watched two sets of lips moving simultaneously. It was obvious that even the deaf would have had trouble grasping the talking points. Maybe talk show hosts should take a page from Paul’s instructions on orderly worship. “And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged.” (1 Cor 14:30-31 NIV)
April 26, 2011
The Call of Easter
Easter Sunday we had lots of visitors and our attendance topped out at 222 – the highest we’ve ever had in our three year history. One of the guys quipped, “I call this the semi-annual meeting of Saints and Sinners.” We may not see some of these folks again until next year, but I’m always interested in their motivation for attending on Easter. Years ago we might have thought going to church only on Easter was for showing off an Easter bonnet or maybe being guilted into attendance by Grandma. However today people are such an independent lot that they show up in jeans and a tee-shirt and Grandma has lost her power of persuasion. I think the credit for the Easter Sunday swell belongs to the Spirit. Hopefully His prompting will have some of these folks back next Lord’s Day.
April 25, 2011
Easter Blend
Last Saturday my husband was helping another man fill the Communion trays for Easter Sunday when they ran out of juice. Bill made a quick trip to the grocery store where he started to pick up Welch’s Grape Juice, but then he noticed Grape Juicy Juice was $2.00 cheaper. Thinking he had a bargain he made his purchase and returned to the church. Right away the two guys noticed the juice was somewhat anemic. Reading the label they discovered that the Juicy Juice is mostly apple juice with a hint of grape juice. Although the meaning of the elements did not change, I couldn’t help but think about how there are times that we unintentionally water down the sacrificed blood of our Lord.
April 22, 2011
Let’s Get Mikey to Do It
Years ago there was a Life Cereal commercial featuring three young brothers contemplating whether or not to eat a healthy cereal. The two older boys conspired to make the youngest boy the taste-test guinea pig. “Let’s get Mikey to do it.” It’s amazing how manipulative we are when it comes to getting someone else to do what we can and should do ourselves. We want someone else to ask a question…someone else to organize an event…someone else to go early or stay late. Somehow I think Mikey is going to have more bling in his crown than some of the rest of us.
April 21, 2011
Speak For Yourself
Once when my children were in middle school I attended a public meeting where the topic of discussion addressed problems in the school district. I struck up a conversation with the man in the seat next to me and found out that we shared the same views. Unfortunately he had another meeting to go to, so I offered to put myself in a leadership role and tell the officials what ‘we’ thought. He wasn’t rude, but he firmly said, “No, I can speak for myself.” I felt somewhat put-in-my-place, but I learned a valuable lesson. Whether it is in the world, or in the church, it really is presumptuous of us to think we speak for others.
April 20, 2011
No Rhyme or Reason
We all have friends, acquaintances and family members who do things that seem to defy logic or common sense. Normally we don’t demand an explanation from them, unless of course their action (or lack of) directly impacts our life. More often we determine that what they are doing and how they are handling situations really isn’t any of our business. Isn’t it interesting though, that when it comes to God, we barrage the gates of heaven asking ‘Why?’ Why do good things happen to bad people? Why is the life of a faithful servant cut short? Why do the innocent suffer? I recently read a commentary by Larry Richards, “We do not need to know why He [God] acts as He does; knowing Him is enough.”
April 19, 2011
I Pledge Allegiance
I find myself in many situations where I’m called to stand and say The Pledge of Allegiance. I normally put my gaze on the flag itself, however there are times when I sneak a peek at other participants. As folks put their right hand over their heart, it’s been interesting to see where people think their heart is located. Some hands are placed high toward the collar bone, low toward the stomach, close the center of the ribcage and then others are almost under the armpit. Jesus tells us where to find our hearts, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Luke 12:34 NIV)
April 18, 2011
Fallen World
I have to admit I like TV crime dramas that use profilers to catch the bad guy. The most recent real life drama is now being played out in New York State where authorities have discovered 10 bodies on or near the beach. The media says that they are likely looking for a serial killer. I should hope so. The alternative is that there could possibly be 10 separate murderers at-large. When I think of the multitude of data and case studies that are needed to come up with a working profile, it brings home the stark reality of what a fallen world we live in.
April 15, 2011
Trigger Happy
Recently my husband joined the DAV Honor Guard and now participates in performing the 21 Gun Salute at funerals of deceased Veterans. There are seven members on the team and in unison each member is to fire his rifle on command three times. Although they practice before each funeral, you can’t expect this group of retired volunteer Vets to be totally professional. At the most recent funeral service one of the guys joked as they got in formation, “Put me at the end so I can fire the last shot.” With his own faux pas, Bill came home shaking his head and shrugging his shoulders because his second round blatantly outpaced of the other six shots. This so reminds me of believers. We may be loaded and ready to go, but sometimes our delivery of the Gospel is just not quite synchronized.
April 14, 2011
Freedom
We have a leash law in the City and I had to smile when I saw a dog dragging his leash and his master walking 10 paces back. Not quite the letter of the law, but I had to admit that the dog was on a leash. Sometimes the Lord keeps me on a short-leash, however in a safe environment and if I’m obedient, He may let me off-leash. Oh the freedom! Come to think of it, the dog dragging his leash had a smile on his face too.
April 13, 2011
All For Sport
It is amazing how nasty local politics can be. Working together, associating with one another and living in the same community means nothing when it comes to throwing someone under the bus. Actually I’m learning that some good can come out of being thrown under the bus…another few trips under there and I’ll be a certified mechanic. It’s hard to imagine the amount of thought that goes into planning, plotting and scheming. Or the energy needed to seed an audience with naysayers, rebel rousers and dissenters. I’m especially intrigued by questions that are planted which are intended to trap others. I’d like to believe that this type of corrosive behavior never occurs in people of faith…and then I recall the Chief Priests, the Pharisees and the teachers of the law. They plotted ways to kill Jesus, they asked questions to trap Him and they enticed the crowd to ask for Barabbas. Sounds like local politics to me.
April 12, 2011
A Timely Word
Last Sunday was our first service with the floor being raised to all one level. While most everyone seemed pleased with the changes, one elderly widow was not a happy camper. Stella’s* previous seat was in the front row in a semi-balcony area overlooking the congregation. With the raised floor, she is now sitting in the back row with no overlook. She was so disgruntled that she was saying she just might leave our fellowship and go somewhere else. While I might have tried to placate or reason with her, one of our leaders simply put his arm around her shoulder and said, “Well now Stella, why would you want to do that when all your friends are here?” “A man finds joy in giving an apt reply—and how good is a timely word!” (Proverbs 15:23 NIV) *name changed
April 11, 2011
Sugarcoated Blessings
Most of my adult life I have half-jokingly told others, ‘The Lord gives me just enough to pay bills and get by…He doesn’t seem to ever let me get ahead.’ My seven year-old grandson David brought me up short when he prayed over his breakfast of Cocoa Krispies, “…and thank you God that we can buy things we don’t need.”
April 08, 2011
Speaking the Same Language
Last Monday our men began raising the church floor, which originally was an octagon shaped sunken dance floor in our restaurant-turned-church. They had professional contractors, experienced handymen, jacks-of-all-trades, and more supervisors that you could shake a stick at. There was supposedly one foreman, three teams of men and a plan that was drawn out. The demolition was fast, furious and focused. Next came the knee walls, subflooring and head scratching. I understand that there was a lot of that male-bonding stuff going on. However, as I listened to the tales that were told throughout the week, I had to wonder how the Tower of Babel came into existence.
April 07, 2011
Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda
I have a friend who has struggled with a weight problem all her life. A couple years ago Becky had a surgical procedure that restricts food intake and the last time I saw her she had dropped over 50 pounds. She looked great, but still had a few pounds to go to get to an ideal weight. Becky explained the surgery and the forever-regiment of eating small meals. Somewhat somber she said, “Knowing what I know now I could have done this without the surgery. At the time I didn’t think I could do it on my own, but now I have to do it on my own anyway...simply eat smaller portions.” Spiritually speaking believers are often in the same situation. Jesus said if our hand, foot or eye causes us to sin it would be better to cut them off, than to be thrown into hell (Matt 18:7-9). For some of us cutting of the offending body part actually sounds easier than making our lives obedient to Christ.
April 06, 2011
Kudos
Every week I interview and write about someone at church and then with the help of other family members we proofread, publish and print a newsletter for the congregation. Last week a fellow believer said, “I am so glad the church does this. It helps us get acquainted and means so much to all of us.” Instantly the Pharisee inclination of desiring credit took shape and I wanted to say, ‘Well, it really isn’t the church’s idea. It’s my idea, my service and my contribution.’ Thankfully I took the thought captive and at least it didn’t come out my mouth. However the Lord knows my thoughts so now I’m asking His forgiveness…and confessing!
April 05, 2011
Taming the Tongue
I came across some interesting trivia that our tongue is the only muscle in our body that is attached at only one end. James says, “…no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.” (James 3:8 NIV) I can just picture a kid at the playground on a winter day being tricked into licking a frozen flagpole. That’s what you call an attached and a tamed tongue.
April 04, 2011
Got His Number
Last week I received a political call asking me to contact my State Representative and encourage him to support a specific legislation. The caller offered to give me my Representative’s phone number and she was somewhat taken back when I told her I already had the number. When it comes to Biblical principles, it’s not unusual for a seemingly more mature believer to offer suggestions on interpretation and implementation of the Word. I love it when I’m well versed enough in Scripture to say, ‘Thanks, I’ve already got His number.’
April 01, 2011
Continuing Ed.
One of my fellow Toastmasters brought her mother to a meeting and at the conclusion the guest said, “This has been interesting and I’ve learned a lot this morning that I’ll be able to use.” My initial reaction was that her comment was merely a compliment to the club, our interaction and instruction…she then told me she was 92 years-old and lived in a retirement community. No doubt her attitude and willing spirit is something our preachers would like to hear from all elderly believers after the Sunday sermon, ‘…I’ve learned a lot this morning that I’ll be able to use’.
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